Your future goals may seem impossible now, but they're not. Larry motivates you, inspires you and gives you that little push you need to hold yourself accountable and stick to the program. Before you know it, you'll see amazing results.
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I don't recommend reading this program from start to finish on the first day. Don't read all 21 days in a row. This is a program to be followed one day at a time. Read Day 1, follow my instructions, listen to my advice and then stop. During your second day on the program, read Day 2, then stop again. There's no reason to take in more information than you're actually going to use for that day. Of course, you can go back and review anything from the previous days as often as you wish. After Day 7, for instance, you might want to go back and read through the earlier days again to pick up little tips and tidbits you perhaps didn't get the first time you read it.
You can also repeat these 21 days over and over and over again in any way you wish. You can repeat the first week a few times until you think you've got it, or you can repeat Days 14 through 21. This program is designed to work with you to achieve your fitness goals.
21-Day Intro Audio from Larry North
Week 1: In the first week, you will start off mastering the basic building blocks of the 21-Day Slimdown. You'll learn the importance of meal frequency, the need to combine the right balance of foods in each meal in order to speed up your body's metabolism and the need for 60-Second Workouts and walking routines. Every day, you will be asked to follow the meal plans and the workouts. You won't be asked to eat and exercise perfectly the first week - far from it. You just want to get started.
Week 2: In the second week, you will start refining your eating and exercise program so it becomes a natural, integral part of your life. This is also the week when, according to those who have gone through the program, you'll really start noticing your body's metabolism changing. Moreover, during this week you'll begin working on another part of your body: your mind. I have often been told the mental tips you'll be getting are some of the great joys about this program. Besides losing weight, you will learn to work on your mind so you can stay focused and motivated.
Week 3: In the third week, you will put it all together. For the final seven days, you'll realize the thrill of eating right while simultaneously getting your body into shape. You won't have to depend anymore on willpower to consciously deprive yourself of calories. You will have the mind-set that will inspire you to get the right food into your body that will slip past your fat cells and rush straight to your muscle tissue.
You might find yourself asking questions during the first several days, feeling confused and wondering why so many things I'm saying go against all the usual stuff you have heard about losing weight.
All I ask you to do is trust the program.
Considering almost everyone quits regular diets after two weeks, what's the harm in following my program for the same amount of time? I won't even ask you to stick with me the whole 21 days. Just give me two weeks - a mere 14 days out of your life. Two weeks! This is all I have asked hundreds of other people who were once skeptics. I have said, "See how you feel after those two weeks, and if you don't want to go on for the third week, I understand and wish you the best."
Then I sit back and wait because I know what's going to happen. I have hundreds of testimonials from people who say they could tell after just a few days that the 21-Day Slimdown felt right. Because they were eating the right amounts of proper food several times per day, they realized they would never again have to pretend to hate food or worry about a lack of willpower.
Ask yourself: Is it worth 14 days of your life to feel you are getting healthier while losing weight? What would it feel like to know you are eating your way to a lean body rather than trying to "diet" 50 pounds away? And what would it feel like to know that you are eating more food than you ever thought was allowed?
All right, it's time to get to work.
The first thing we're going to do on the 21-Day Slimdown might seem a little odd. I want you to find a pencil or pen and write down what I call a Personal Mission Statement.
Mission statements are used by corporations all the time. They prepare a statement that clearly defines their philosophy and goals. It can be a wonderful tool for you as a way to stay committed to your new life and new body. After you write your own Personal Mission Statement, I recommend you stick it on your refrigerator door or your bathroom mirror so it will always be there to remind you to stay in the right direction. It is there to remind you that if you try to be the best you can be, then everything else will follow. Whenever you feel yourself stray, your Personal Mission Statement will be there to get you back on track.
My mission in life is to attain a state of vibrant physical health that allows me to feel confident and attractive in front of others. I am committed to losing enough weight so that I can live my life with great joy and display the kind of energy that will bring me friends, happiness and tremendous success.
Now it's your turn. Don't think of this as a test you have to get right the very first time. Don't worry if it sounds too vague. You can refine this statement over the coming weeks and months as often as you want.
Is it possible to achieve that goal in your mission statement? I know it is. I have watched it happen time after time. People create a truly unshakable belief in themselves.
As I've said, the heart of the 21-Day Slimdown is eating. You eat to lose weight, and the first secret to the Slimdown is to eat more often in regular intervals.
Today, you're not going to worry so much about what to eat, but when to eat. All you must do today is eat every three to four hours. That's it! You're doing far more good for yourself than you know. Indeed, researchers have discovered that when people take the same amount of food they eat in their three regular meals regardless of what that food is and divide it into five meals, they start losing weight. Isn't that amazing? Just by sequencing your meals and spreading them out, you can start dropping weight without ever changing the food you eat!
Why are frequent meals so important? Although your goal is to get as much good food as you can past your fat cells and into your lean muscle tissue, you must be wary. Your lean muscle tissue can handle only a certain amount of food at a time. In other words, after you eat that amount, the cells in your muscles shut their doors and don't allow any more food in, no matter how nutritious it is, until it has burned up the food already there. So where does the excess food go? You guessed it: straight to your fat cells.
Let me give you an example of what I'm talking about. (I'm going to be mentioning calories here, but I'm only doing so to illustrate my point, not to make you think you have to count calories to succeed in this program.) Let's say it's lunchtime and you have the type of body that needs 500 calories to keep functioning until your next meal. But then you sit down at lunch and ingest enough food to add up to 1,000 calories. That excess 500 calories (no matter where it is coming from - chicken, fruit or cookies) is most likely to be stored as fat.
Are you getting the picture? If at some point during the day you eat a very large meal (which almost all of you do), you're liable to saturate your fat cells. And don't think you're doing yourself a favor if you overeat at one meal and then wait several hours before eating another meal. By then it's too late. Your body has already taken the extra calories from that first meal and sent them to its fat cells. What's more, all you're doing by waiting several hours to eat again is building up your appetite to the point that you'll almost certainly overeat the next time. In fact, your fat cells will play a vicious game with you if you try to lose weight by under-eating. The more meals you try to skip in the hope of losing weight, the more your fat cells (sensing an oncoming famine) will send out those notorious enzymes in order to grab most of the calories you ingest when you finally eat again.
Moreover, when you spend too much time between meals, your body isn't going to want healthful food. Every study done of eating patterns has found that the longer you wait between meals, the greater the amount of high-fat food you will consume at the next meal. Let's say you're trying to get lean, and you have a cup of coffee and toast for breakfast. Then you eat a salad and yogurt for lunch. Then you go from 1:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. without eating. When you walk into the house, exhausted and hungry, what do you think you're going to want to eat? Certainly not a healthful meal like a grilled chicken breast with steamed broccoli and brown rice. You are craving fatty foods and sugar - the very things your muscles will never take in.
This craving is a physical need, not just a psychological one. Your body is shutting down and requires energy in a hurry, and sugar and fat are two of the best ways to get that quick fix. The reason you also crave fat is because you want food that is instantly satisfying and fills you up fast. It's a fact: Under-eating always leads to overeating. Skipping meals will set off an increased craving in your body for the very foods you're trying to avoid.
Let me stop and guess what your thoughts might be at the moment. You think there is no way you can eat so much food four or five times per day, and you believe there is no way you can even find the time to squeeze in so many meals per day.
The fact of the matter is that most of you are already eating five times per day. There's no question about it. What many of you are conveniently ignoring is the caloric impact of your little 60-second "snacks" that you have in the mid-mornings and mid-afternoons. You're also forgetting about that quick graze in front of the refrigerator right before you go to bed at night. You don't realize that those little snacks are usually so high in fat and so loaded with calories that you may as well be eating a full meal.
Let's consider the typical American diet. Doughnuts or a couple of bagels in the morning, then lunch, then a vending machine snack in the afternoon, a big dinner and then ice cream late at night. That's five meals. And as you're going to learn tomorrow, if you ate the right foods that many times per day, you'd be overwhelmed by the amount of food you could eat. You'd be even more overwhelmed by the fact that you'd start losing weight.
Your task for Day 1 is very basic. You're not going to find any recommendations on what to eat - that will start tomorrow. I only want you to eat five meals today, each one coming approximately every three to four hours.
Please note: I'm giving you five meals each day because I count the snacks you're eating already as meals. (Considering the kind of quick food you probably eat during a normal snack, a snack is almost always higher in fat and often higher in calories than a regular meal.) Moreover, if you ever happen to note the times you eat during an average day, you will probably realize that when you include your snacks, you might be eating more than five times per day.
Another critical point to remember: This week, your third meal and fifth meal will look more like snacks and low-fat desserts. By next week, however, we will make those into light protein-carb meals just like the others.
I'm offering you times of the day you can eat, but again, I want this program to provide flexibility. You can decide when to have your first meal. Just make sure you start eating in regular intervals after you finish that first meal.
Meal 1 | Meal 2 | Meal 3 | Meal 4 | Meal 5 |
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8 a.m. | 12 p.m. | 3 p.m. | 6 p.m. | 9 p.m. |
Eat your regular breakfast. | Eat your regular lunch. | Eat a snack | Eat your regular dinner. | Eat a late-night snack. |
I know to those of you who have spent much of your adult life trying out fad diets, I might sound a little bit off-the-wall. You are still stuck on that wildly outdated theory that our days should consist of three meals - breakfast, lunch and dinner. But what I'm giving you is the result of reports from the top researchers in the field who have studied permanent weight loss and determined exactly what it takes to get fat off your body forever.
Some of you are probably wondering what I'm holding back. I'm not holding back. I'm not holding back a thing. This is what true progress is all about. It's about moderation and balance. It's about creating small daily habits that will give you the ability to eat well for the rest of your life. You will never turn back once you see your body change.
You can make surprising changes in your eating behavior just by slowing down the speed at which you eat. A lot of people who eat too much of the wrong foods don't even know what they're eating because of how quickly they race through their meals. Today, time yourself and see if you're taking a bite of food every 5 or 10 seconds. Ideally, you want to do it somewhere between 15 and 30 seconds, and if you can hold out longer, that's even better.
Keep this in mind, too: Your brain needs about 20 minutes to recognize that you have eaten enough to satisfy your body's needs. If you eat more slowly during this 20-minute period, you'll consume less food but feel equally satisfied at the end of those 20 minutes, as compared to faster eaters who will consume much more food in those first 20 minutes but will have no idea how full they are until much later when they can barely move off the couch.
Today is another easy day. You will be continuing to work on your meal frequency, and you are going to add a couple of exercises to make your muscle tissue burn calories far more efficiently. All you have to do is two workouts today that last no more than 60 seconds each.
For those of you who haven't worked out in a long time: Don't be afraid of the word "muscle." Muscle is the best calorie-burning tissue the body has, and when the muscles are called into action, their calorie-burning ability can increase as much as twentyfold. And listen to me, you can get those results without having to use barbells. You don't have to do 10 reps while lying in a vulnerable position under a bulky machine. You do not, I repeat, do not need to devote several afternoons a week putting on workout clothes, going to a gym, spending an hour working up a sweat, showering, dressing again and going home.
I admit, I was once a bodybuilder wannabe. I devoted my life to the gym. But today, my workouts are a lot easier and shorter, and I don't feel like I am missing a thing. I want to let you in on a little secret. If you closely watch a big-time weightlifter do a series of repetitions with weights, you'll notice that the time he is actually lifting is about 60 seconds or less before he takes a long rest.
Essentially, that's what you'll be doing, except you won't be producing the stereotypical "pumping iron" muscle. This will be lean, silky, beautiful muscle. You'll be taking your long-dormant skeletal muscle tissue (which right now probably feels like fat) and you'll be rebuilding its elasticity and tone.
I can't tell you how many of my old-school colleagues give me a hard time about the idea of my 60-Second Workouts. They say, "Oh, come on, who can get in shape in 60 seconds?"
And I always reply, "Hey, I've met a lot of people who have turned their lives around with just one 60-Second Workout." As time passes, they add more 60-Second Workouts each day. I know people who were unable to get through 30 seconds of a 60-Second Workout, and a few weeks later were doing a dozen of them per day.
Despite all the huffing and puffing you see at health clubs, the truth is that the most elementary resistance exercise - leaning one arm against the wall, placing your two hands together and pushing - stimulates the kind of muscle activity that can burn calories. It's not the weight you use that counts, it's how you use the weight.That's one of the beauties of the 21-Day Slimdown. Rather than being inundated by a lot of restrictive instructions on how to work your biceps, triceps and abs, you only need to use your body weight on some simple exercises. In later weeks, you occasionally might use cans from your pantry as dumbbells, and somewhere down the road you might even join a gym. But that's up to you. All you have to do in this program are quick, easy exercises you will always be able to fit into your schedule.
In the Exercise Guide, you'll see photos and descriptions of the 60-Second Workouts. Some work your upper body, some your lower body, and there are others that stretch your muscles and give you the critical elasticity to keep your muscle tissue vibrant.
For today, your goal is to complete two 60-Second Workouts. Let's do an upper-body and lower-body workout. (As we continue through the program, I will not require you to do any specific workouts. In this program, any muscle-building exercise, regardless of where it is on the body, is going to get results.)
The first workout for you to do is what I call the Modified Push-up. Instead of being on the ground doing the far more difficult Marine-style push-up, this is a push-up you can perform from your desk at work, kitchen counter or dining room table. Stand about three feet away from the desk or table. Lean forward at an angle and place your hands, which should be shoulder-width apart, against the object. Do push-ups for about 60 seconds, or as long as you can last. The slower you perform the push-ups, the better your workout will be.
Now, let's do a lower-body workout: Standing Heel Raises. Stand with your feet together, go up on your toes, and when you come down, let your heels just barely touch the ground. Repeat over and over for 60 seconds, or as long as you can last.
If you were laughing before at the idea of 60-Second Workouts, I bet you aren't laughing now. I doubt very many of you are able to go the entire 60 seconds. That's normal. Now do you realize what kind of workout you can do in that short space of time?
There's no other way around it: To make your muscle cells work more efficiently, you've got to work them out. Allowing a muscle to go unused not only compromises your health, but also keeps you from full physical potential. Not as much blood travels through an unused muscle, which means that muscle won't get enough oxygen and calcium, which in turn means your tendons and ligaments become fragile. 80 percent of all low-back pain may be attributed to muscular deficiency. Studies also show that those who do not do any kind of muscle toning are more likely to develop osteoporosis, a condition in which your bones weaken and you start to hunch over as you get older.
If you're worried you're going to look like a bodybuilder, forget it. Research professors on women's health have verified that a basic resistance exercise program (i.e., something like the 60-Second Workouts) will lead to phenomenal gains in a woman's strength with very little change in the overall size of her muscle. Instead of worrying about your appearance as a result of the 60-Second Workouts, you should be celebrating the fact that what you'll see is a decrease in the size of your hips and thighs because of the significant amount of fat that you'll lose. You don't get bigger. You only look better. Who can complain about that?
I have no doubt you are quickly going to realize your time to exercise is precious in your life. But like everything else, don't overdo your workouts. Relax. More weight is not great. You don't gain through pain. To me, pain only means one thing - you're hurting. And I think by now you know all too well that if you feel pain or burn out too quickly, you're going to call it quits.
Are you continuing to spread out your meals evenly? If you are the type who has tried all your life to eat twice per day at most, you're probably wondering if you can make yourself eat every three hours. All I want you to do is try. Add meals, whatever they are. You have to get yourself into the routine of meal frequency. If you are the type who nibbles and eats all the time, then try to limit yourself to five specific mealtimes every three hours. Don't get impatient and think there is so much more to do. Just by spreading out your meals, you are reconditioning your body to lose weight.
Meal 1 | Meal 2 | Meal 3 | Meal 4 | Meal 5 |
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8 a.m. | 12 p.m. | 3 p.m. | 6 p.m. | 9 p.m. |
Eat your regular breakfast. | Eat your regular lunch. | Eat a snack | Eat your regular dinner. | Eat a late-night snack. |
My feelings about vitamins have flip-flopped in the past few years. I once believed you should take everything that was made, from liver tablets to protein powders to megavitamins. Then I went through a phase where I felt no vitamins were necessary. Today, I believe vitamins have a place as long as they are used in moderation and not as substitutes for healthy eating. Here's what I would do: Take a good multivitamin or packet of vitamins as recommended. It's a great addition to your program because even with the best eating, you can still use some added vitamins. For those of you who are vegetarians, a protein supplement such as a protein powder can help.
Today we learn about another cornerstone of the 21-Day Slimdown: what you will be eating. By the end of the day, you are going to eat one perfectly balanced meal. In the 21-Day Slimdown, it is imperative you have both a lean protein and a starchy carb at each meal with a fibrous vegetable thrown in as often as you wish. The lean protein and starchy carb are the two vital elements in your eating program, and you want to do your best to get both on your plate at every meal.
I have no doubt that some of you are already thinking, "Lean proteins, starchy carbs and fibrous vegetables? You call that appetizing?" If you see the simple recipes and meals I provide for you each day, you'll realize very little is being removed from your usual choices of foods. You'll only end up preparing or ordering some of those foods differently.
Here is the beauty of eating this kind of balanced meal. You will be eating twice the amount of actual food you usually eat in a typical high-fat meal, and you'll still be taking in fewer calories! I can't tell you enough that by eating more high-quality foods, you lose weight faster!
Every time you eat, it is important for you to remind yourself that all calories are not created equal. The calories you get when you eat a french fry are far different from the calories in a baked potato. If you eat a bite of food that contains just 1 gram of fat, you will have ingested 9 calories (those are called fat calories). But food from 1 gram of starchy carbs provides 4 calories, and food from 1 gram of lean protein also has just 4 calories.
Do you realize the implication of these numbers? Here is what you could substitute for 2 teaspoons of butter: 1/2 cup of oatmeal, four egg whites, 2 cups of broccoli, 4 cups of lettuce or 1 1/2 cups of air-popped popcorn. That's a heck of a lot of food. At the University of Alabama, doctors asked a group of volunteers to eat low-fat foods until they felt full. The doctors then asked another group to eat high-fat foods until they felt full. On the high-fat diet, the volunteers usually started feeling full after having about 3,000 calories per day. On the low-fat diet, the volunteers started feeling full after eating just 1,570 calories per day.
The hosts stared at the food and then looked at me dubiously. "You mean to tell us you can eat all this food in one day and actually lose weight?" one of the hosts asked.
"Easily," I said. "I can do it because all the food you're looking at is composed of starchy carbs and lean protein. That kind of food doesn't get stored as fat. Do you realize that one hamburger, a large order of fries and a chocolate shake have more calories than four grilled chicken breasts, two baked potatoes, 2 cups of rice and 6 cups of fibrous vegetables?"
The hosts' jaws dropped.
"And do you know that your 12-ounce soda and candy bar are equivalent in calories to the 10 egg whites, 1 cup of oatmeal and toast that I eat in the mornings? And here's the kicker. That kind of food you're eating is more inclined to go to your fat cells and make you look fat. My food acts like fuel."
The hosts weren't sure what to say. I think I had made my point.
The lean protein and starchy carb combination is the ideal way to regulate your blood sugar level, fuel your muscles and give you the immediate energy to function properly. It keeps you from experiencing sugar cravings that can lead to wild chocolate binges, and it can prevent those insulin-caused peaks and valleys that can make you pig out.
Most important, if you eat the proper balance of starchy carbs and lean proteins at every meal, you are essentially shooting the equivalent of jet fuel into your body and forcing your metabolism to operate at a much more rapid rate! The faster your metabolism, the faster your calories are burned off.
Let's say that you were very conscientious about spacing every meal evenly apart during the day. But in one meal, all you ate were starchy carbs (for instance, a large baked potato), in another meal it was all protein (a serving of chicken the size of your palm) and in another meal it was all fibrous vegetables (a large salad). The problem with this kind of eating is that your muscle tissue will only take in so many carbs and so much lean protein at a time. If you eat more than the proper amount of starchy carbs and proteins at one meal, your muscle tissue won't be able to absorb it. Off to the fat cells the excess carbs and protein go.
On the other hand, if you don't eat a protein and starchy carb at each meal, your blood sugar might lower too quickly and lead you to binge on high-fat foods. With a balanced eating program, the desire for fat significantly diminishes.
Again, it's very simple. You must complete only two 60-Second Workouts. For your upper-body workout, do a Bicep Curl. Stand with your knees and hips slightly bent to create a slight forward tilt with the upper body. Keep your back straight and shoulders back, and your arms should be straight down at your sides with your elbows slightly bent. Now, raise your lower arms as far as possible without moving your shoulders or upper arms. When you reach the top of the movement, squeeze the biceps, then slowly lower them back down and repeat for 60 seconds. If you wish, you can hold a soup or vegetable can in each hand while performing the exercise for extra resistance.
For your lower-body workout, do the Reverse Lunge. This is a great overall leg exercise. Stand with your feet shoulder-width apart with your knees and hips slightly bent. Hold your arms to your sides. Take one foot and take a giant step backward. Plant your toe firmly against the ground with the knee only slightly bent. Hold for a couple of seconds, maintain your balance and then return to your starting position. Make sure to keep your back straight. Then begin again, this time stepping back with the other leg.
By now, you've had your first 21-Day Slimdown meal, and I promise you, your fat cells are in trouble. In the coming days, as you add more Slimdown meals to your eating guide and start your exercise program, your body will start going through incredible changes! Just hold on. As long as you follow this program, it will be impossible for you not to lose weight!
As I said earlier, we're going to take it slow as we move into our eating plan. Today, all I want you to do is try to make Meal 4 perfectly balanced. As for the other meals, I want you to find ways to cut back your normal intake of fat or at least substitute slightly better foods for the ones you normally eat.
Below is a list of sample meals. But please take note: You do not have to eat those foods if you don't like them. If you hate turkey sandwiches, for example, then come up with a different protein to eat. Forcing yourself to eat foods you hate is a guarantee you will quit this program before the week is over.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Cereal with skim milk, two slices of toast with jam. |
Lunch | A turkey sandwich with mustard (never mayonnaise) and chips. |
Snack | For your afternoon snack, try crunchy vegetables (such as a bag of baby carrots from the grocery store) instead of a candy bar. |
Dinner | Here is your perfectly balanced meal. One chicken filled grilled with no oil or butter, a baked potato with fat-free cheese, fat-free sour cream, chives, and a salad with fat-free dressing. |
Snack | For your evening snack, try a bowl of oatmeal (using little or no sugar) instead of something like ice cream. |
Here is the standard rule I follow for men and women: Your protein (such as a piece of lean meat) should be able to fit into your hand, your starchy carb should be about the size of your fist and your fibrous vegetable should be able to fit into a small cereal bowl. That's it. If you're a larger person, you might add a little more food, but anyone staying within the above parameters is going to be on track.
You never really have to carry around one of those 500-page books that tell you the calorie content of everything. If you're eating the right kinds of food at each meal, and if they are approximately the sizes I mentioned, the number of calories and fat grams will take care of themselves. You just have to make sure you're getting the right balance and right proportions of food!
You've been waiting for this day, haven't you? This is the day, you're thinking, when I tell you to take up some calorie-blasting, super-fat-burning workout. If there is anything that should make you leap out of bed in the days to come, it's the knowledge that the best cardio program to help you lose weight is one that requires you to go slower!
Go slow. Do you remember how I earlier told you about the enzymes in your body that help your fat cells collect calories? Here's the beautiful thing: Your body has other enzymes that can be sent out to take those calories out of your fat cells, and a great way to stimulate those enzymes is through moderate exercise - and I mean moderate!
Just as fire needs oxygen to burn, so does fat burn in the presence of oxygen. If you work out too hard, you're becoming what is called anaerobic, which means your body is in "oxygen debt." Because oxygen isn't getting into your fat cells, your body uses its sugar supplies for energy. There's nothing wrong with that, but it's not the most efficient way to lose weight. It's moderate exercise that gets oxygen into the fat cells, which then sets off a kind of reaction that starts releasing fat calories. You don't need to run a marathon or sprint as fast as you can. You don't need to sweat through your clothes. You don't burn extra amounts of fat just because your lungs are gasping for oxygen.
Don't work out for an extraordinary length of time when you do cardio exercise. The newest information we have shows that fat-burning exercising can be accomplished in bits and pieces - a few minutes here, a few minutes there. Researchers at the University of Pittsburgh asked two groups of overweight women to walk for a total of 40 minutes per day. The first group of women had to walk for 40 straight minutes. The second group could divide their 40-minute walks into three daily sessions. The women who divided their 40 minutes not only made the same cardiovascular advances as the women who walked all at once, but also lost an average of five more pounds over the 20-week period of the study.
Did the Pittsburgh researchers uncover some great mystery about the human body? Actually, they figured something out about human behavior. "The women taking the briefer sojourns were less likely to skip their walks," the study found. "The flexibility associated with exercising in short bouts ... allowed for more consistent exercise participation."
If you take small but consistent steps - a theme you will hear echoed throughout this program - then you will make great strides in reshaping your body. That's it, ladies and gentlemen. When people ask how much I run, how many aerobics classes I take or how long I ride my bike, I look them square in the eye and say, "I walk. I put on some tennis shoes, and I walk."
Walking burns calories just as effectively as running, cross-country skiing or playing a vigorous game of tennis. It only takes a little longer. According to one study, 150-pound women who walked three times a week for an hour automatically lost 15 pounds, and that's without any change in their food intake. In another study, researchers at the University of Georgia had overweight students and staff do treadmill work four times a week expending 300 calories per session. One half did the treadmill work at high intensity, while the other half went much more slowly but for a longer period to reach the 300-calorie level. Astonishingly, both groups lost an identical amount of fat - 5 pounds!
Besides continuing your work on your eating program, all you have to do today is walk around the block. Walk more than once if you wish, but all I'm asking for now is one time around.
You don't want to make your walk a leisurely, casual stroll, but you don't want to walk so that you end up huffing and puffing. Throughout your cardio program, if you ever find yourself gasping for breath or if you can't carry on a normal conversation while walking, you're going too hard and not burning fat as efficiently as possible.
Is there a voice in your head saying, "Oh, come on, Larry! How can you burn enough calories to lose fat by walking around the block?" No doubt you've seen those charts in other books that tell you doing a triathalon or going cross country skiing burns more calories than walking. And of course, you've noticed those great, muscular bodies of professional athletes and said to yourself, "I've got to work out like that athlete if I want to look like him or her."
Sorry, but you're misleading yourself. The goal here is not to become a professional athlete, nor is the goal to exercise the way you did when you were 16 years old. Your goal is to get the physiology of your body to change so that it turns into a far better fat-burning machine.
You can do any type of cardio you wish. If you want to jog, rollerblade, swim or take aerobics dance classes, great! But in my program, I'm going to focus on walking because that's what I see the majority of people doing. Even in health clubs filled with extravagantly complicated machines, it's always the treadmills that are in the highest demand. Walking does everything for you that you need to accomplish to get the fat off. The Cooper Institute of Aerobics Research, the Dallas organization that invented the word aerobics, no longer says it is intense, vigorous exercise that leads to healthier bodies. The institute's exercise physiologist, Dr. John Duncan, says, "We now know that metabolic changes occur at very moderate exercise intensities."
Did you hear that phrase?
Metabolic changes? That's right, you can speed up your valuable metabolism by doing something other than running and intense sports. And as I've said over and over, the speedier your metabolism, the more calories you burn.
I hope you realize just how far you progressed today. For those of you who have done no cardio exercise in a very long time, your simple walk probably had the same physical effect on you as a 5-mile run for a conditioned athlete. In that one walk around the block, you got your body's long-dormant furnace going, and it began gobbling up calories far faster than someone who's more conditioned and has been working out longer.
Stay with it. Although I'm not going to ask you to walk again for a couple of days, you can walk all you want. If you feel yourself get tired and want to slow down, then by all means, slow down, but keep moving. With each step you take, you transform your body into the finely tuned engine it can be. Stop thinking your body is worn-out, rusted and overweight. Every time you walk, you stoke your inner furnace. Furthermore, besides sending oxygen to the fat cells, exercise sends more oxygen to the brain and makes you feel far more alert throughout the rest of your day in everything you do.
To make egg whites, all you have to do is crack an egg gently in half and hold each half in either hand. Pour the yellow egg yolk from shell to shell while letting all the egg white drip into a bowl below. You want to get rid of the yellow yolk because that's where all the fat is in an egg. If you're not sure you like egg whites, add two whole eggs to two egg whites to get used to the taste.
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Breakfast | Try scrambled egg whites (your lean protein) with toast or a bagel. Avoid using butter or oil. Nonstick frying pans are the best for stovetop cooking, but if you don't have one, use a low-fat kitchen spray to lightly coat the pan. (If you prefer an omelette, then make your omelette using only egg whites.) |
Lunch | Try a lean ground beef hamburger or turkey burger (see the Cooking Guide) with mustard, ketchup or fat-free mayo. |
Snack | For your mid-afternoon snack, instead of a bag of potato chips, try 3 cups of air-popped popcorn. (You can pop it the night before and bring it with you to work.) |
Dinner | Go for a lean red meat like an 8-ounce filet mignon (16 ounces is way too much) along with an order of baked or roasted potatoes for your starchy carb. Pick a fibrous veggie of your choice, like spinach. |
Snack | Go for low-calorie fruit such as strawberries, apples, pears or berries. For flavor, add some nonfat whipped cream. |
I have found if I wait until later in the day to work out, I usually have so many things that come up I run out of time or am just too exhausted from my workday to do anything except collapse when I get home. To avoid this, I work out early in the morning when I am at my freshest.
If you set your alarm 15 or 20 minutes earlier each day, you could have time to get in all the 60-Second Workouts you wanted. If you set it 30 minutes earlier, you could get in a walk. I know you probably don't like getting up earlier than you have to, but once you do get up and moving, you'll always be glad you did.
Would you like to know the main reason why people don't get the results they hope for when they try to lead a low-fat life? It's because they don't have the right food available or are not sure how to get the right food when it comes time for a meal. They either haven't bought the right food at the supermarket or they haven't pre-prepared their meals in advance.
Well, we're about to change all of that. Before you get too involved in the 21-Day Slimdown, you need to learn to have the right food close by. Considering how often you're going to be eating from now on, you can't hope to succeed if you don't have the food at your fingertips. There's absolutely no way around it. You cannot be leaping up from your desk at the office a couple of times per day to search for the right food, nor can you afford to put off meals (this leads to cravings that keep you thinking about food). You never want to find yourself in a position where you're hungry and all you're stuck with is vending machine food, fast food or snacks in the pantry. You don't want to get home from work late and be so hungry you start wolfing down whatever you can get your hands on.
When it's time for your meals, you've got to be ready. It doesn't count to have a frozen chicken breast in the freezer or an uncooked potato. You will be too hungry to wait. You'll end up snacking on things while you wait for that meal to be cooked, and by the time you're ready to eat, you'll have downed hundreds of calories that are already on their way to your fat cells.
So what am I asking you to do? Spend hours in the kitchen? No, just the opposite. If this begins to feel like a marathon cooking program for you, you'll stop this program in a heartbeat. I want you to learn to have meals ready quickly. Preparing meals before you need them saves you tremendous time and money, and anyone with minimal cooking experience can be prepared.
In this program, I'm going to suggest that you always have a couple of meals ready at any given time. That's all you need to do. There are some people I know on this program who prepare a week's worth of the right kind of food. They pop a dozen chicken breasts and/or fish fillets on the grill, put ten baked potatoes in the oven, boil beans and steam vegetables on the stove, make a salad, store the food they're going to eat those first three days in the refrigerator and put the rest in the freezer. After three days, they take the food out of the freezer, let it thaw overnight and reheat or microwave it the next day. Voila! They have a meal!
Let me tell you how I prepare meals. The night before, I make a protein-carb meal replacement drink (see today's Slimdown Tip) and put that in the refrigerator for my first meal in the morning. Often that same night, I may prepare for the next morning's second meal by cracking open eggs and putting the egg whites in a bowl with chopped vegetables. All I have to do is throw the concoction on the stove to make an egg white omelette. I also pull food out of the freezer (something like a grilled piece of lemon-pepper chicken with some rice and steamed broccoli), thaw it and carry that meal out of the house with me in a little plastic container.
Be sure the container you choose to bring to work is microwave-proof, just in case you'd like to heat it up. The last thing you want is a meltdown.
Trust me, once you get into the habit of bringing your own food with you each day, it's no different from making sure you have your car keys. There are truck drivers on this program who are on the road so often that they carry coolers full of North-quality food. That way, they can get their meals in all day long.
"But Larry," you're saying, "this is not exactly what anyone would call gourmet eating."
Today, we take a big step forward and boost the number of 60-Second Workouts. This time, try to do four or possibly five workouts. Pick any five you wish, and make sure to include one or two 60-Second Workouts that are in the stretching section of the Exercise Guide.
It's also time for your second of three walks for the week. You'll walk 15 to 20 minutes. Did you know that sucking in your stomach as you walk is a type of sit-up that over time can tighten your stomach muscles? When walking, lightly swing your arms and keep your elbows bent at a 90-degree angle. This swinging motion alone will help you walk a little faster and will certainly burn more calories.
Today, we take a big step forward and boost the number of 60-Second Workouts. This time, try to do four or possibly five workouts. Pick any five you wish, and make sure to include one or two 60-Second Workouts that are in the stretching section of the Exercise Guide.
It's also time for your second of three walks for the week. You'll walk 15 to 20 minutes. Did you know that sucking in your stomach as you walk is a type of sit-up that over time can tighten your stomach muscles? When walking, lightly swing your arms and keep your elbows bent at a 90-degree angle. This swinging motion alone will help you walk a little faster and will certainly burn more calories.
Don't lose patience. We're still adding all the building blocks to the 21-Day Slimdown. Every little thing you're learning to do now will pay off in a big way later. Here's something to think about. Did you know that each time you drop 10 percent in your body weight, your incidence of heart disease decreases by 20 percent?
That's right. More than 900,000 Americans die of heart disease every year. The reason so many die from heart disease is because of their high levels of cholesterol, which is mainly caused by excess fat. With every extra pound of fat you take in, you're adding a lot of extra blood vessels in your body - miles of them. These blood vessels drain away the very blood other organs need. Foods with a high amount of fat can also clog your arteries, which makes it more difficult for blood to circulate.
Every little thing you can do to knock fat out of your body is a great, great victory. You must never forget this. The grim reality is that, over time, fat can kill you. Nearly 90 percent of the 11 million Americans suffering from diabetes have what doctors call type 2 weight. Did you know if you are an overweight woman, you have a much greater chance of contracting uterus, womb, ovary and breast cancer? Did you know if you're an overweight man, a high-fat diet puts you at greater risk for prostate and colon cancer?
For Day 5, I want you to prepare a meal you will eat later in the day. Let's make it easy. Grill some extra chicken today, then use some of it for Meal 2 (which you'll see below) and some for Meal 3.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Try a breakfast shake. Put ice and a banana in a blender with one packet of a meal replacement product (see today's Slimdown Tip). Add a little skim milk. Blend until the concoction is creamy. |
Lunch | A grilled chicken sandwich with lettuce and tomato is a great choice for lunch, or you could try one of the salads in the Cooking Guide, such as the Fiesta Bean and Corn Salad. Sprinkle in some chicken for your protein. |
Snack | A grilled chicken sandwich with lettuce and tomato is a great choice for lunch, or you could try one of the salads in the Cooking Guide, such as the Fiesta Bean and Corn Salad. Sprinkle in some chicken for your protein. |
Dinner | For dinner, try a pasta without oil or butter, sprinkle it with slices of chicken you prepared earlier today and add a fibrous veggie of your choice. |
Snack | Try a nonfat ice cream bar. |
One way to ensure you get in all your meals each day is by relying on powdered meal replacement products that you blend in a glass with iced water and a piece of fruit. In the past, you had to hold your nose to get these drinks down your throat, but now they taste great and provide a good balance of protein and carbohydrates. You can get them at almost any grocery store.
Clearly they shouldn't be a major part of your eating program. You should always look for something to eat. Studies show that if you don't actually get something to chew between your teeth, you'll never feel full no matter how many meal replacement drinks you have per day. Still, I have no objection to them compared to some of the other high-fat foods you can eat. Moreover, the protein in these powders serves as a nice alternative if you get tired of so many protein dishes during the day.
Doing the 21-Day Slimdown would be a lot easier if you spent all your time inside your house. But in this day and age, most of us eat away from home an average of four times per week. We spend 40 percent of our monthly food budgets at restaurants. Obviously, you've got to learn to deal with restaurant food and make the food fit into your program or you're not going to succeed.
Restaurants have a way of loading up food with fat. Even some restaurants that offer menus with items that read "healthy heart" or "lite" on them can be misleading. When waiters tell you the cooks use only "a little oil" on the food, you need to be skeptical. It's likely the cooks are in the kitchen drowning the food in oil. They may have marinated their meats in oil and cooked all their vegetables with butter.
Regardless of what type of restaurant you are in, you can make yourself a low-fat meal. Wherever you are, it's possible to create what I call the North Plate - an order of protein (usually grilled chicken or fish), a starchy carb (perhaps brown rice or a potato dish) and a fibrous vegetable. You can also get a variety of condiments and sauces at the restaurant to enhance the flavor. The truth is, you can put together a North Plate at any greasy spoon in town.
First, look the menu over very carefully to see what foods the restaurant has available. Let's take a burger restaurant for example. They should have lots of lettuce and tomato to dress up the hamburger. All right, there's your fibrous vegetable. They make french fries from potatoes, so ask very politely if they might have an extra baked potato lying around. Okay, you've got your starchy carb. There is almost always a chicken sandwich on the menu. Order that plain (with no mayonnaise and, if you can handle it, with no bread), and there's your protein.
If you are in a place that serves only fried chicken, then pull off the skin. You won't be getting out all the greasy fat that comes with fried foods, but at least you're somewhat ahead of the game. If they have nothing but hamburgers, then order a hamburger and not a cheeseburger.
Do you see how little substitutions can help you? If you went to a Mexican restaurant and simply ordered grilled chicken fajitas without oil or butter, pico de gallo instead of sour cream, tomato and lettuce instead of cheese, corn tortillas instead of flour tortillas and extra green and red sauce instead of guacamole, the savings would be enormous. You could keep well over 1,000 calories out of your body - at least half of those calories being fat calories.
Don't ever make the mistake so many people do, which is thinking that cutting back a little item here or there from a high-fat meal isn't going to do much. Over time, it will save you a lot of pounds.
The Restaurant Guide is devoted to specific low-fat dishes you can order at different types of restaurants. If you're going to a cafeteria or steak house or even a Chinese restaurant, this section (along with this program's Restaurant Guide) will show you what to order. It will also give you an array of techniques when ordering to make sure the kitchen keeps the fat out of your food.
As you get started on this program, I want you to initially focus on a few easy guidelines. All you need is a little knowledge and a little confidence, and restaurants will give you the kind of low-fat meal you want. You're not going to catch every high-fat slip the restaurant makes, of course. But through some simple requests, you can eliminate the equivalent of one shot glass full of cooking oil, another of melted butter, another of salad dressing, and another full of sugar. That's a lot of fat calories you're knocking out of your diet, especially if you eat out a lot!
Complete five Sixty-Second Workouts. Include at least one stretching workout.
Some of you have told me it's hard for you to work up the courage to special order. You say you get a little embarrassed in front of the waiter or the people you're eating with, and so you say nothing. I've seen hard-driving businessmen and women - tough negotiators at the conference table - turn completely passive at a restaurant table.
I have spoken to restaurant associations around the country. I know restaurant owners want to keep you as a customer. If you order food to be cooked a low-fat way and it comes out too high in fat, nine times out of ten the restaurant will send the food back to be re-done. The manager and waiter want to make sure that you get what you have ordered. I've even gone to major banquets where all the food is fixed the same, and I've grabbed one of the people who work there and said, "Excuse me. I'm on a special eating program. Will you help me out here?" And in the middle of those banquets, they bring me what I ask for.
Special ordering at restaurants will soon be second nature for you. But until then, one good way to beat the psychological barrier you might be feeling is to call the restaurant in advance and ask about the low-fat, non-oil dishes you could order that evening. During the 21-Day Slimdown, dining in restaurants can be as much fun as ever. And what will make it especially fun for you is that you can realize how much good food you can eat and walk away from the table knowing your program hasn't been sabatoged by a high-fat meal. It's an empowering feeling to know that you control what you eat, rather than letting someone else control you.
Since we're focusing today on special ordering at restaurants, all five meals are designed to help you at restaurants. I'm not saying to go out and eat every meal at a restaurant today, but depending on what time you are out at a restaurant, here are examples of meals to order. Obviously, when you're at home today, choose meals from the selection I have already given you from the previous five days.
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Breakfast | Go to a restaurant and, order an egg white omelette, cooked without oil, butter, or cheese; include a variety of vegetables in the omelette; then add either dry toast or dry English muffin and a bowl of oatmeal topped with berries or raisins. Ask for a few wedges of lemon or lime with your meal. Squeezing juice on your food adds flavour and satisfaction. |
Lunch | Load up on vegetables at a salad bar, but avoid croutons, shredded cheddar cheese, bacon bits, and any of the creamier salads like potato salad or macaroni salad, which can contain an astonishing nine grams of fat per1/4 cup. Also avoid the creamy cold pasta, which is usually soaked in oil and, of course, the higher-fat dressings. |
Snack | Drop by a convenience store and grab a piece of fruit or a bag of pretzels. |
Dinner | Go Italian. Order a pasta with either marinara or wine sauce, ask for plain bread instead of garlic bread, and order a salad with your dressing on the side. If you want a pizza, ask that it come with no cheese, and add a variety of vegetable toppings for flavour. If you really want to be good, ask if they'll make the pizza crust oil-free. |
Snack | Try a nonfat yogurt at a yogurt or ice cream shop. Try to get yogurt that is less than one gram of fat per cup. |
A terrific secret to a better body is getting lots of water in it - as much as eight to ten glasses of water per day. Half of your body weight is composed of water, and each day your body naturally loses up to 12 cups of water. Replacing that water and keeping it circulating through your system is a secret weapon for better health because it helps wash out toxic waste and helps supply oxygen and nutrients to your muscles and organs.
Water is also very important for weight loss. It takes up a lot of room in the stomach, which keeps excessive hunger at bay. Most significantly, if you aren't drinking enough water, your body will sometimes misinterpret its own thirst as a food craving. Experts say your hunger pains are often our body's request for more water. The next time you want to eat between meals, try drinking water. You may find that water is just the thing to quench your hunger as well as your thirst.
One of the reasons America, as a whole, has become more overweight over the years is because we no longer do the little day-to-day activities that are not officially considered "exercise" but go a long way in keeping us fit.
The differences in lifestyle between modern Americans and our past counterparts may seem small, but they start to really add up. 50 years ago, people were more likely to walk to work or walk to catch a bus, and if they drove, they used a stick shift to change gears instead of the convenient automatic transmission. Once at work, they may have also had to a climb two or three flights of stairs. Other small differences at home such as the absence of electric dishwashers and remote controls helped keep people up and moving constantly through the evening. And on weekends, people were far more likely to spend a sunny day outside mowing the lawn and trimming the hedges instead of hiring a lawn service to keep the yard green and tidy.
My point is not that you should give up all the conveniences in life. By adding back into your daily routine some things that will get your body moving and by making yourself more active when you are at rest, you will be amazed at the results.
Are you getting the point? I've been around a lot of people who spend most of their lives molding and perfecting their bodies and spending thousands upon thousands of dollars with personal trainers. But the path to good fitness hardly requires such obsession. According to the New England Journal of Medicine, two doctors recently determined that the average person could improve his or her heart by simply climbing stairs for six minutes per day!
Other researchers say that basic routine activity (getting up, getting dressed, lifting things, walking around, doing housework, going out in the evening and so forth) will burn 25 percent of your total calories, and that's if you are only moderately active.
Can you believe that you are about to finish your first week on the program? I bet you've quickly realized that a cornerstone of your success in the 21-Day Slimdown is being ready for every hour of the day. If you know what you're supposed to be doing as the day unfolds, you're going to progress much quicker.
An invaluable tool for me to stay on the program is to take my daily calendar and write down everything I need to do that day. This guarantees that I achieve all my eating and fitness goals. It's not just a to-do list. I mark down the exact times when I should be eating my meals and what I want those meals to consist of. I mark down the times when I am going to take my walks. I also include shopping lists for the grocery store. If I am going out to eat at night, I put down exactly what I wish to order so I won't be tempted to order a high-fat dish. I even write down when I'm going to prepare and cook low-fat food at home. I also schedule other personal time to stay focused on my goals. In fact, on my personal calendar, I also write down 10 minutes every day for what I call Goal Time.
I highly recommend that you create a similar calendar. You might have one of those black leather personal day planners as I do, or you can use a regular spiral notebook. It doesn't matter. Just use it to keep yourself on track.
Merely by keeping a journal, your awareness of your habits will soar. It makes a huge difference in your long-term success. When you keep a written record of your eating, you'll find yourself more driven to get through each day of perfect eating. When you keep a written record of your workout times, you'll start enjoying the pattern of your workouts more and you'll hate it when you break the regularity of your workouts. Your journal will keep you moving forward. That's what counts, not postponing your program until tomorrow, not waiting to work out until "someday," but making sure success is heading your way right now!
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Breakfast | If you want to try an amazing new breakfast, go for the Egg Muffin from the Cooking Guide. This is a perfectly balanced, low-fat, low-calorie meal. |
Lunch | Try a delicious fat-free tuna salad. Take a can of water-packed tuna with fat-free mayonnaise. Put in diced onion, celery and egg whites. If you wish, add Dijon mustard, vinegar, cilantro and tomatoes. Mix it up and you have a terrific protein. |
Snack | Run by a Chinese restaurant and grab some steamed rice and steamed fish or chicken. (Make sure only white chicken meat is used.) Use a little teriyaki sauce for flavor. |
Dinner | Baked turkey breast, brown rice and vegetables. |
Snack | As a new evening snack, try rice cakes that come in a variety of flavors. For a great spread, mix fat-free cream cheese and low-sugar preserves on the rice cakes, or put fat-free cheese on top of the rice cake and melt in the oven. |
Although I have been concentrating this week on teaching you about the importance of lean proteins and starchy carbs, I don't want to de-emphasize the glory of fibrous veggies. I don't claim that you must always have them at each meal, but they are important throughout the day. High-fiber foods reduce the blood levels of insulin, a hormone that can overstimulate the appetite. High levels of fiber intake have also been associated with a decreased risk of developing heart disease, colon cancer, constipation and diabetes. Although starchy carbs like potatoes, beans and rice have fiber in them, a starchy carb is more calorically dense, while a fibrous vegetable is basically water with nutrients. Whereas a cup of corn (a starchy carb) has about 150 calories, a cup of green beans (a fibrous veggie) has about 50. Fibrous vegetables can add flavor and variety to your meals and help fill you up without overloading you with calories.
Do you realize how much is changing in you already? You are changing just by reading about what this program involves. You are changing your habits simply by becoming aware of what food does when it enters your body, by realizing the advantage of burning off a few extra calories through extra cardio activities and by discovering how quickly your vital lean muscle tissue strengthens through basic 60-Second Workouts.
I make a point of talking to as many people as I can who are going through the 21-Day Slimdown, and I've discovered something fascinating. Those who have great success with the 21-Day Slimdown are not necessarily the ones with the most time on their hands to do extra workouts or prepare lots of low-fat meals. They aren't the ones with the financial resources to hire personal trainers or pay for every new piece of fitness equipment they see on an informercial. They aren't the types who feel they must do anything they can to lose weight.
In truth, the most successful people on this program are the ones who relax and let the 21-Day Slimdown slowly and simply enhance their lives.
Listen to this letter from Mary, a wife and mother from Illinois:
"Larry, I have gone through every diet you can imagine. I have starved myself more times than I want to admit. And then I heard about you. After the first week on your program, I started losing weight, and I realized I hadn't starved myself once. I knew I had found my program for life."
Here's what a schoolteacher in southern California told me:
"Every time I tried to go on a diet, I ended up gaining more weight, and I didn't understand why until I heard you talk. I decided to get real and get on a program that got me to lose weight naturally. You have been a godsend."
Let me again remind you, no matter how excited you are to change your body, this program works best only if you slowly immerse yourself in it. Yes, there have been some people on the 21-Day Slimdown who have lost 30 pounds in a month. But as you get into this program, I'd prefer you forget about your scales.
In fact, in the first couple of weeks of the 21-Day Slimdown, your clothes might start feeling loose on you, but you may not initially be losing many pounds. The reason is you'll be building sleek, lean muscle tissue as you strip away body fat, and lean muscle tissue weighs more than fat. So if you are gauging your success with your scales, you might get discouraged with me, give up and go back to a standard, old-fashioned deprivation diet.
Remember: Fad diets knock off pounds by getting rid of your water weight and your valuable muscle tissue. What counts here is permanent weight loss - the loss of fat from your body, not the speed with which you can lose 10 pounds.
The 21-Day Slimdown is designed to change your body's metabolism and starve your fat cells, which takes more time. The longer you go on my program, the more you'll realize that you will be able to lose as much weight as is genetically possible for your body. That's going to be a lot of weight, no matter what your genetic makeup is.
Don't be in a hurry. Relax, forget about the exact number of pounds you weigh and concentrate on losing body fat, gaining some muscle tissue and letting the program takes its course.
What other diet program starts out the week by teaching you how to cheat? As perplexing as it sounds, part of your education in the 21-Day Slimdown is learning how to eat a "cheat" meal that doesn't fit the parameters of this program. I am a realist, and I know no one (not even I) can follow this program all the time. Most of us can only go so long depriving ourselves of our very favorite high-fat foods. If we feel we are being held hostage to just one particular way of eating, we will quit. With the 21-Day Slimdown, you are getting the best of both worlds. You will get a few cheat meals, and you will still lose weight.
If you go on a traditional deprivation diet, a cheat meal can be disastrous and add back nearly all the weight you've lost. Why? Because your body is in such a state of starvation during your diet that the food from your cheat meal would be immediately soaked up by fat cells like a sponge soaking up water.
In truth, the occasional cheat meal doesn't hurt you nearly as much with the 21-Day Slimdown. The program creates a metabolism so high it can burn through a lot of those fat calories that come from a cheat meal. Your muscles will also be far more efficient, thus capable of taking in more calories to be burned.
Now, please be sure you understand. I'm not talking about giving yourself the opportunity to go off and gorge for hours at a pizza buffet. A cheat is not an excuse to binge, nor am I saying that you can cheat once per day. If you try to throw in a high-fat dessert every day or wolf down a hamburger at lunch five times a week, you're not going to get lean. But you can remain successful if you say to yourself, "Okay, there is going to be one time in the next two weeks when I am going to eat a great high-fat meal. I am only going to go eat one or two high-fat dishes that I really love, and I'm going to make sure to exhibit portion control on those dishes."
A four-year study of more than 2,000 women at the Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center at the University of Washington in Seattle reveals that women who limited their fat intake to around 25 percent of calories lost their taste for fat in six months or less. By the end of the study, the women said they actually found fatty foods unpleasant to eat.
For instance, if your idea of a cheat meal is a big juicy steak and loaded baked potato, why don't you make sure there is no bread on the table and that the salad comes with a nonfat dressing? That alone will save you a chunk of calories. Or if you want a bucket of fried chicken for your cheat meal, why don't you pick out a couple of the best breast pieces, eat those with the skin and peel the skin off the other pieces?
Perhaps you can do an even more modified cheat meal like eating your usual healthy meal with a cheat item on the side and in moderation. You can get a small cut of chicken fried steak for your entree or a half slice of pie for dessert. For some people, a taste of high-fat foods is enough to give you what the diet experts call mouth satisfaction. You can then return home feeling as though you did indeed have a special night, and your waistline won't have suffered a bit. And, if you overdo it on a cheat meal, get over it quickly and get right back on the program. It's no big deal.
If you're wondering why I'm not particularly fearful of you having cheat meals, it's because I have seen people get on this program who are scared to death they won't ever eat their favorite foods and within a few weeks realize they didn't want to cheat as much as they thought they did. For the first time in their lives, looking good and feeling great have become so important to them that they actually lose their taste for the fatty foods they loved.
While you may not believe such a thing will happen to you (you're perhaps thinking right now that there is no way you'll ever give up your love of cheese fries), I know it will. As you get more experience following this program and keeping your body well nourished with the right foods, you won't feel the same cravings for the wrong ones. In fact, you will actually get bored with fattening foods!
In the 21-Day Slimdown, working out your mind is as important as working out your body. Your mind is as important as any of the other muscles of the body. That's why, during our Evening Pep Talks this week, we are going to work on techniques to strengthen your self-confidence and determination so you'll stay focused on achieving your goals.
"I am the single most important thing in my life."
It sounds a little weird, doesn't it? In order for you to be the best person you can be, you first and foremost have to take care of yourself. When you treat yourself as the most important person in your life, you will start nurturing yourself with the same passion with which you nurture anything or anyone you love. I once heard someone say, "Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line."
It's true. And that is exactly what will happen to you on this program. As you go to sleep tonight, I want you to think about your body as a temple or perhaps as your very best friend. You treat it with care, you never neglect it and you never endanger it. If you make the commitment to yourself tonight that your body is precious, you will not fail.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Try a unique breakfast combination: oatmeal with a scoop of protein powder and sprinkled with artificial sweetener. Add sliced fruit for flavor or add the incredible low-fat French Toast that you can find in the Cooking Guide. |
Lunch | Prepare a grilled chicken breast with a cup of rice, or take a look at the excellent Fake Fried Chicken in the Cooking Guide. |
Snack | A roast beef sandwich and baked chips is an excellent choice. |
Dinner | It's celebration time. Treat yourself to your first Cheat Meal! |
Snack | 1 cup of nonfat yogurt with 1/2 cup of raw oatmeal or cereal mixed in is a great snack. |
Although I've been suggesting some fat-free alternatives for you to use in place of your usual fattening foods, fat-free products should remain a minor part of your program. You cannot rely on them to get you lean. Most fat-free products contain a very poor balance of lean protein and starchy carbs. Fat-free hardly means calorie-free. The calories in fat-free food are the classic empty calories that your body sends to your fat cells. Many of you eat fat-free food all day long, believing you are doing something good for your body. But what you're doing is putting on a lot of weight because of the poor nutrition of the food. Never forget that what makes you lean is a good balance of lean protein and starchy carbs. Fat-free food is merely a temporary measure and nothing more.
Now that you've had a great cheat meal, let's get back to work. That's always the way to get back on the program after a "cheat." You never say to yourself, "Well, I may as well keep cheating for another few meals since I've already blown it today." However, if you overindulge, you haven't blown the program. All you have to do is pick right back up where you left off.
The old saying that breakfast is the most important meal of the day is true, especially on the 21-Day Slimdown. If you're not willing to go for that first breakfast meal (and I know more people don't eat breakfast than do), you are not going to get lean on this program. There is a still-pervasive myth that you can lose weight if you wake up hungry and then hold off eating until lunch. That's just not true. You've got to start feeding your body early, and you've got to feed it a balanced combination of foods. If you miss that first meal, you are under-eating, and as I've told you, under-eating always leads to overeating, which usually happens right at lunch.
Of course, there are those who do like to eat breakfast, but it's either a massive fat-laden meal, which is always easy to choose at breakfast (eggs, bacon, hash browns, toast with butter, pancakes with syrup and a big glass of orange juice) or it's a very unbalanced one (an all-carbohydrate, sugary muffin, a couple of pieces of fruit or a bowl of sugary cereal with milk). This kind of meal causes great fluctuations in your blood sugar levels, which then cause you to have cravings for mostly fat or sugar.
If you are the type who loves to order the big eggs-and-bacon extravaganza, just remember that those breakfasts contain more than 1,000 calories, half of which are fat calories. (Again, I'm not asking you to count calories, but just keep in my mind that an average meal should be about 300 to 500 calories depending on your size and gender. You might be thinking, "Hey, but I can work off a big breakfast all through the day doing housework, sales calls, whatever." Sorry, that's a big myth. Remember the science: If you overload your body with calories, no matter what time of the day it is, those excess calories will head to your fat cells.
One of the biggest complaints I hear from people who don't know my program is, "Larry, I'm not sure I'm right for the 21-Day Slimdown because I don't like to eat egg whites, which I always hear you suggesting." I will say this until I'm blue in the face: If you hate a certain food that I suggest in your daily Eating Guide, you don't have to eat it. If you hate egg whites, don't eat them. There are plenty of other foods to eat. What's more, if there is a food you especially love, like bacon, don't think you can never again eat another piece of bacon. That's ridiculous. Of course you'll eat it, regardless of what anyone says.
All I want you to do is come up with a few ways to not rely on the fattier foods as much as you have in the past. I want you to have days where you cut down from three pieces of bacon to one piece or mix egg whites with whole eggs to remove a few fat calories. Substitute low-fat Canadian bacon or fat-free ham for regular bacon. There are terrific, low-fat morning meals such as the Cheese Grits and Egg Muffins offered in the Cooking Guide.
I recognize that you might not always get in the perfect protein-starchy carb balance in Meal 1 - it is sometimes very difficult to get in that protein - but it is important to at least get a protein in one of your first couple of meals. Whenever you get a good protein-starchy carb meal at the very start of the morning, you've set up your body to get leaner and leaner as the day goes on.
Tonight, we're going to talk about another way to keep your mind focused on your goals. Do you remember when you were a kid and you cut out magazine photographs or bought posters of your heroes and heroines? Although you didn't know it, what you were doing was envisioning a future for yourself. You were giving yourself an image of what you'd like to be. You can do the same thing in this program. I have suggested to people that they cut out a photo of someone whose body they admire. I'm not saying to find a photo of the perfect beach body. Get a photo of an attractive person who obviously takes care of himself or herself.
Will the picture itself give you a better body? Of course not. But it will give you a focus. Seeing someone else who has done the things you dream about can be a great inspiration for you. You could put the picture on your refrigerator and stare at it every morning as a way of helping to put a mental image of what you want to be in the forefront of your brain.
This process is called visualization. Another way to do this is to write down the way you think you'll look and what kind of clothes you'll be wearing. Write down the way you notice other people admiring you for the effort you made to change your body. Write down the positive, confident feelings you know you will gain if you have that better body.
By visualizing this image of yourself over and over, you are doing nothing less than reprogramming your mind. You are imprinting upon your subconscious the fact that you are someone who is going to achieve whatever you set out to achieve. You will turn your dream into a reality.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Four to five egg whites or an egg substitute product with chopped veggies and 1 cup of oatmeal. Just to remind you: If you don't want eggs, then pick one of the Meal 1 items listed throughout the other days. And for a special fully balanced meal, try the Power Muffins that are listed in the Cooking Guide. |
Lunch | A bowl of low-fat chili. Add ground turkey breast and beans. |
Snack | Eat a turkey sandwich with a side of My Special Fries (recipe listed below). |
Dinner | Four pieces of shrimp (grilled or boiled) and one California roll sushi. |
Snack | One grilled chicken breast, one medium-sized sweet potato with a butter substitute, and steamed veggies. One of the easiest chicken dishes is Leslie's Easy Chicken, found in the Cooking Guide. |
After microwaving, boiling or baking a potato, shave the potato into thin pieces. Cover a cookie sheet with foil and lay out the pieces. After putting the potato slices on the foil, sprinkle with spices like garlic powder, paprika, salt and pepper. Put the potato slices in the oven and broil until brown and puffy. Flip them over with a spatula. Broil some more. Pull out the sheet and you have perfect, non-fat fries.
At every health food store are products that advertise themselves as "fat burners." The products are a form of powder or juice that are supposed to help you burn off fat and increase your energy. Some products even boast they can absorb fat. Read the fine print. At most, they absorb three grams of fat - that's about half an eyedropper. Compared to a high-fat meal where you get 60 grams of fat, the benefit is tiny. The other fat-burning products are filled with additives that might have some slight impact on how lean you are, but the only people who will see the results from these products are those who are already extremely lean with little body fat. In the end, you'll never be sure what you're getting. One organization studied 300 of these products and found nearly a quarter of them had no fat-burning ingredients whatsoever. Moreover, they caused side effects such as high blood pressure and heart palpitations.
You've probably noticed this week that I have been turning Meal 3, which was just a healthful snack last week, into a mandatory protein-starchy carb meal. Does it feel a little uncomfortable for you to imagine eating such a meal every day for the rest of your life? Generally, Meal 3 falls right in the middle of the afternoon when you are at your office or carpooling or doing just about anything except thinking about having to sit down and eat. It's one thing, you are thinking, to have a snack in the mid-afternoon. It's another thing entirely to have a protein-carb meal.
That's where you are wrong. In just a week and a half, you have already been given a variety of meals that you could prepare or order, from salads to sandwiches to complete dinners. You have learned about the advantage of pre-preparing meals. You've learned about Meal 3. You can have a healthy frozen meal (these are not high enough in protein but will do in a pinch). You can even run into a grocery store and grab some deli turkey or a can of white meat tuna along with a can of corn or a baked potato.
Now, as I've said, this is not the kind of meal that is going to make Julia Child salivate. However, neither were the snacks you were eating. The time has come for you to turn that snack into a meal because the benefits are so valuable. The person who learns to feed his or her body most efficiently and eats the most complete meal is the person who loses weight the fastest. As long as those meals are coming at the right interval and in the right proportions, that food will slide right past your fat cells and head to your muscle tissue.
The time has come for you to do something else. You must also begin treating your last evening meal, Meal 5, as a protein-starchy carb meal. One of the great misconceptions about eating is that if you eat late at night you will get fat. Well, if you eat what most people eat late at night (drive-through fast food or a dessert) you will get fat. But when you eat a muscle-building meal that speeds metabolism, you will get lean no matter what time it is.
A well-balanced Meal 5 also keeps you from a fatty nighttime binge, and I'm sure I don't have to tell you how uncontrollable a late-night binge can be if you haven't gotten in all your meals throughout the day. I've heard dozens of stories of people who will go through the entire kitchen looking for everything sweet. Why are they doing that? Their body didn't get the proper balance of foods during the day. A final, well-balanced meal goes a long way in keeping those fat cells quiet. One thing to be wary of during this meal, however, is that you've lost a lot of fluid during the day and will also be tempted to pour yourself a big glass of orange juice, which can be devastating to the progress you've made. If you're thirsty, make sure you drink lots of water late at night along with Meal 5.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | A one-minute breakfast of 1 cup of nonfat yogurt, 1 cup cereal, 1 cup protein powder with an artificial sweetener and some sprinkled raisins. |
Lunch | Try the Apricot Chicken from the Cooking Guide. Add a small dinner salad with fat-free dressing and 1 cup of rice and beans. |
Snack | Try the Pizza Casserole from the Cooking Guide. |
Dinner | One grilled pork tenderloin, mashed potatoes (no milk or butter) and string beans. |
Snack | Meal replacement drink. |
How's your confidence level today? One of the best ways to build your confidence and stay focused in this program is to surround yourself with like-minded people. Just one good friend can make the difference. This is someone who also might be trying to lose weight and will go through the program with you, or someone who has already been doing the program and can talk to you during those times when the desire to backslide rears its ugly head.
Ironically, some of the people you love the most or perceive as your closest friends can often turn out to be your worst enemies when it comes to losing weight. They will often do some subtle and perhaps subconscious things to discourage you from losing weight.
They might be well-intentioned, but they could very well provide you with negative reinforcement. "Uh-oh, how long will this program last?" they'll wisecrack. "Are you going to last three days on this program? Maybe stretch it and go four days?"
You have to realize that others might feel threatened or jealous by your commitment and may try to make you feel inadequate. There will be someone going to lunch with you who will ask that you have a dessert. When you say no, he or she will inevitably say, "Oh, come on, it won't hurt you. Just eat less tonight at dinner." When you really start getting successful in this program, you are likely to hear such lines as, "I hate all this low-fat stuff you're cooking now," or, "Aren't you embarrassed to take food with you to work?" "Please, you're not going to put us through that special ordering, are you?" "You're not going to do any 60-Second Workouts while we have company, are you?"
Not only do such comments hurt your feelings, they can undermine your confidence. I don't mean to be hard on you when I say this. I know it's extremely difficult to withstand social pressure. But you have to elevate yourself above people whose primary way of feeling good about themselves is to see others not succeed.
Never, ever be embarrassed about your desire to lose weight, and never apologize to anyone about your goals. Don't let anyone stand in the way of your decision to go after what you want! It is not egotistical or selfish to put yourself first when it comes to losing weight. You'll find a great empowerment when you start saying to others, "I want to go to a different restaurant because it has better food for my program." You'll understand how wonderful it is to stand up for yourself when you politely say to a waiter, "This fish is swimming in oil. Can you please take it back?"
In time, your newfound confidence will have a marvelous effect on those around you. They'll see how happy you are and how proud you've become, and soon they'll want to do exactly what you're doing, too.
Are you thinking, "Well, Larry, we all know candy isn't good for you." Actually, many of you still believe that some sort of candy is a great way to get an instant burst of energy when you're feeling tired. This is a big-time fallacy. A single candy bar contains far more sugar than you need in one day, and the sugar from that candy bar sets off a major chemical imbalance in your body that, in the end, will cause you to get fatter.
Because that one candy bar causes your blood sugar levels to rise to astonishing heights, your pancreas reacts by producing an excess of insulin to deal with all that sugar. The result? The sugar from the candy bar initially makes your spirits soar, but then the large dose of insulin depresses the level of blood sugar and your body suddenly slows down. You start to feel moody, irritable, tired and ultimately hungrier. What happens next? According to studies, you tend to eat a second candy bar because you think the first one didn't do its job. The cycle goes on and on and on. When I feel plagued by a low energy level, the one thing I like to do is take a walk. It not only gets my heart pounding, but it also helps release more endorphins in my brain to make me think more clearly and effectively.
I have been increasing the level of your workouts this week. Why? If you build an exercise program for yourself and then stay with that program on a regular basis, your body will learn to utilize that stored fat more quickly than it does now.
Don't forget what is happening with these extra workouts. The longer you keep your body in motion, the more your metabolism is stoked. Indeed, as you now start walking 30 minutes per day at least four times a week, your metabolic rate will get to the point that you will continue to burn off calories at a high rate for up to two hours after your walk. Some studies even show that on the morning after a good exercise session, a person's metabolic rate measures an almost five-percent increase, and that's after that person has had an eight-hour sleep!
It's also important that you increase the number of your 60-Second Workouts this week. You will not only be adding sleek muscle tissue that will help give your body a better shape, but you are also installing a fail-proof mechanism to make your weight loss much easier. You have more than 400 muscles inside your body, and each one is composed of millions of tiny cells. If you can get that muscle tissue in tip-top shape, your body will burn calories at an enormously fast rate.
Let me stop and tell you that I know you are wondering, as you see the increased number of 60-Second Workouts, whether you should be concerned about becoming too muscular. Not in the least. Do you know what causes that over-bloated look on weightlifters at gyms? They're eating too much fat. Muscle-building exercises don't make you fat; they make you lean. Muscle is to your body what gold is to the economy - the basic foundation and dynamic source of energy. In fact, simply by firming you up, the 60-Second Workouts can make you drop a dress size without a major change on the bathroom scale.
And don't worry about using dumbbells in the upcoming days with your 60-Second Workouts. That's still not the kind of workouts that can make you "look huge." Combined with your eating program, the muscle-building exercises in this program knock out the heaviness around your hips and thighs. You get nicer, more shapely legs, and your love handles melt away. Believe me, these exercises are a lot less painful and certainly less expensive than plastic surgery.
I admit, I have borrowed a few pages from bodybuilder handbooks. Whether you love them or hate them, bodybuilders have attained a muscular development and a body fat level that was unheard of years ago. But in the 21-Day Slimdown, you are not going to "get huge," to use the bodybuilder's lingo. You are not going to build bulging muscles, nor will you ever get sore. Instead of trying to lift as much as you can, you are doing deliberate and controlled movements that focus on the muscles you're supposed to be working.
So enjoy yourself. Every time you perform a 60-Second Workout, you are taking another step toward rediscovering your curves and muscles.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Try the Power Muffins from the Cooking Guide, or go with egg whites, one banana and oatmeal porridge. |
Lunch | Have one grilled chicken breast or turkey tenderloin with 1 cup of black-eyed peas. Or if you want something different, there's nothing better than the Taco Salad from the Cooking Guide - a perfectly balanced meal in itself. |
Snack | Here's a great five-minute, low-fat meal. Buy a white filleted fish, rinse it, sprinkle lemon pepper over it and squeeze half a lemon on top. Place the fish on a plate, cover in plastic wrap and microwave for a couple of minutes. Add rice that you can boil in a bag. |
Dinner | Try the Most Requested Meatloaf from the Cooking Guide along with potatoes and green beans. If the sweet tooth is calling out to you, try a soft drink float made with nonfat, low-sugar ice cream or sorbet and diet soda. Compared to more than 700 calories from a regular soft drink float, it contains a mere fraction. |
Snack | Try the Taco Casserole from the Cooking Guide. |
Do you remember a couple of days ago when I had you state, "I am the most important thing in my life?" Perhaps you thought I was having you do that only for dramatic effect. What you were doing, however, was called an affirmation, and affirmations are very valuable tools. Despite their simplicity, affirmations can help drive home your belief in your own abilities.
For centuries, people have known the power of affirmations. According to ancient Hindu tradition, once we state something over and over, it becomes a mantra, a frequently repeated thought that molds and shapes our future. The theory is that when you make an affirmation out loud, your statements are getting to your subconscious mind and transforming it so it will work to bring out the best in you. On the other hand, if we focus on our fears and insecurities, what we are really doing is inputting very negative information into our subconscious. Tell me, would you rather have a subconscious that is working against you, or one working for you?
Right now, as you're reading this, stop for just a moment and smile. Take a deep, relaxing breath and just smile. Notice how the smile changes your whole state of being. Now say, "I love improving my body."
"I love improving my body."
I know, I know, it sounds silly. At least it does right now. But you're working on your subconscious and throwing off the shackles of your old limited thinking patterns. Scientists say that on a typical day, the average person thinks about 60,000 thoughts. Even more startling is the fact that 95 percent of those thoughts are the same ones you had the day before. Through affirmations, you are able to install new, more empowering thoughts. Your mind has a vast, immeasurable potential that often remains untapped.
"I am more fit today than ever before, and I am getting fitter by the moment."
"I'm happier, and my body is growing stronger."
"Every step I'm taking is progress."
"Whatever I do today, I am able to do a little bit more tomorrow."
"Whenever I eat a perfect meal, I am supercharging my body."
"Whenever I work out, I am burning off hundreds of calories."
"Every day, in every way, I am getting better, better and better."
Feel free to create your own affirmation. Choose something that has special meaning to you.
Like many of you, I once thought affirmations were sort of goofy. But as I've learned, the more positive thoughts I have had about my body, the easier it has been for me to stay lean. By saying out loud what it is you want, you will give credit to what you are doing.
Here's a way to get an extra boost out of your walking program: every now and then, try something called interval walking. That's when you alternate your basic walking pace with some high-intensity spurts. For example, first start off for 10 minutes at your regular moderate rate. Then pick up the pace until you're breathing harder (but not all out) for a couple of minutes, then slow back down to your regular speed that lets you catch your breath, which will probably be slower than your initial walking speed. Then pick up the pace again for another couple of minutes, and so on and so forth.
This kind of training allows you to burn more calories per minute and will keep you at a higher metabolic rate throughout your walk. It's going to help with the afterburn effect, too. You'll be burning fat at a higher rate even after you stop exercising. The more intense the exercise, the greater the afterburn effect.
After years of misinformation about protein being harmful to your kidneys, the current medical research has proven that not only is protein good for your body (including your kidneys), but also many scientists are suggesting we eat more of it. We have 20 very important amino acids in our body that help build muscle - 10 of which the body sustains, and the other 10 of which we get from the protein we eat. The higher the quality of protein you can get into your body, the better off you'll be.
While it may appear that I'm encouraging you to eat a lot of protein on this program, the truth is that you have probably been very deficient in the past getting the right kind of protein into your body. And remember, you're not eating that much protein. 10 egg whites might seem like a lot of food, but it has the same number of calories as two whole eggs with a lot less fat. A 5-ounce grilled chicken breast seems like a lot of food, but it has the same number of calories as half a candy bar.
In recent years, meat producers have adopted new breeding and feeding methods that have reduced the fat content of their animals. Even so, beef is still a major source of fat in the American diet. In general, you should eat beef less frequently, and even then only with care because even when beef appears lean, it still has more than 30 percent fat. Cuts such as round tip, top round and top sirloin have less fat than other cuts. When choosing those cuts, look for the ones that have the least amount of visible fat or marbling throughout the muscle. The longer you cook it, the more fat will be burned off. The fattiest cuts include ribs and tenderloin. Also, stay away from liver, kidney, heart and tongue. Finally, keep your portion sizes very, very small. I recommend about 3 or 4 ounces per serving. That's a portion that is approximately the size of a deck of playing cards.
I must admit that, as much as I love a good steak, I tend to go with poultry or fish on this program. In many cases, it provides a high-quality protein, and most important, it is lower in total fat than beef. Seafood, such as cod and haddock, gets about 8 percent of its calories from fat in a typical serving. And even the high-fat, dark-meat fishes such as salmon give you a less-saturated fat than beef.
Always go for white meat in chicken and turkey. Dark meat can be as high in fat as beef. And always go for skinless white meat. Dark, skinless chicken meat contains about 8.3 grams of total fat in a typical 3-ounce cooked serving, and 43 percent of its calories come from fat. In comparison, white skinless chicken breast contains 3.8 grams of fat in a typical 3-ounce serving, and only 23 percent of the calories come from fat. And listen to this: If you leave the skin on that chicken breast, the number of calories from fat doubles.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Try egg whites along with the Cheese Grits dish you will find in the Cooking Guide. |
Lunch | A large salad with grilled chicken and nonfat dressing. You can add corn to your salad for your starchy carb. If you're adventurous, try the Chicken Broccoli Rice Casserole from the Cooking Guide. |
Snack | A turkey sandwich, baked potato and a steamed veggie. |
Dinner | Try one of the pizzas in the Cooking Guide. |
Snack | Try the Rio Grande Chicken Stew in the Cooking Guide. |
You've already learned to do several things in the Pep Talks this week to build a more powerful attitude - visualizing yourself at your best and using affirmations to stay motivated. Tonight, I want you to work on pushing negative thoughts out of your mind altogether.
Can you imagine going for the rest of the night without thinking a single negative thought? Can you spend the next two or three hours with a 100-percent positive mental attitude? That is what truly confident and successful people do. They can turn their backs on negative situations by saying, "Don't give it another thought." They specialize in putting positive thoughts into their minds and keeping them there.
Try this. Take a few moments tonight to recall some pleasant, positive experiences. Count your blessings. Recall the many good things you have to be thankful for: your spouse, your children, your friends, your health, etc. Recall the good things you saw people do today. Recall your little victories and accomplishments. Go over the reasons why you are glad to be alive. You might write all these thoughts down on a sheet of paper.
Conscientiously visualize yourself putting those thoughts into what I like to call your "memory bank." In time, those thoughts, as you dwell on them, become the dominant thoughts in your memory bank. The negative thoughts have more trouble taking up space in your brain and trying to draw you off course.
Psychologists say that what you are doing is reconditioning your mind. You are developing a mode of thinking without limitations. By pushing a positive attitude on yourself, you are not trying to look unrealistically at life through rose-colored glasses. Rather, you are celebrating the wonders of life. You are seeing the cup as half-full rather than half-empty.
Remember, winners are always looking for opportunities. They deal with problems as soon as they arise. Instead of focusing on the breakdown, they move forward by focusing on finding solutions - right now! - with zest and drive.
One of the best ways to boost your walking program is to take your act on the road. Find new parks or neighborhoods. Take walking vacations in other cities. Just to see how you feel about it, go to your local gym (you can usually pay a daily fee without having to join) and do nothing but walk on the treadmill for 30 minutes. Time flies when you're on a treadmill, and you get to watch everyone else around you working out.
And just to remind you about something I said a while back: If you get tired of walking, you can do something else for the cardio phase of your program. You can attend a dance class, complete an exercise video, jog, run long distances, ride your bike or even buy a stationary bicycle. Rollerblading is amazingly effective, as are stair climbers at gyms. I know people who have cross-country ski simulation machines in their homes, and I know people who swim an hour per day. If you keep variety in your program, you'll never get bored.
Since such foods are technically carbohydrates as well as being nutritious and low in fat, you may think I want you to eat them. I agree, these foods can be good for you - if you eat them in much smaller amounts than you're accustomed to! But I don't consider these flour-based products to be the kind of carbs that should be a staple of your program.
The reason they can be harmful is because of how they are made. These carbs have been altered from their natural wheat state and turned into calorie-packed, processed food. When the natural wheat grain has been mashed and broken down into a simple flour, it is very easy for your body to digest. Because the body doesn't have to do anything to break down that processed, flour-based food, the calories go almost straight into your bloodstream and then right to your fat cells.
Let me give you an example. One large-sized bagel that you see at a bagel shop has more calories than a chicken breast and a baked potato.
Let me give you an idea about cereal. All your life you've been told that nut-and-grain cereal is good for you. It is, to some extent. But one serving, which amounts to 450 to 500 calories, is just 3 tablespoons or about one shot glass. In my program, you can get the same number of calories by eating 20 egg whites, 2 cups of oatmeal and three slices of dried toast.
So you've got to be extremely careful of foods made of processed flour. I see people packing away two or three bagels in the morning and thinking they're doing something healthly for themselves. They couldn't be more wrong. The way to eat processed flour foods is in moderate portions.
There are many so-called "experts" who have received a lot of attention in the past because of their concept: the low-carb, high-fat diet. The theory behind these diets is that without any carbohydrates for energy, the body will turn much more quickly to stored fat. Furthermore, say the low carb, high-fat advocates, if you eat extra dietary fat in the process, you'll feel full longer, which means you won't eat as much. Somehow, the extra fat you're eating won't really affect your weight all that much, so what you are being given are recipes that, according to a study by the American Dietetic Assocation, contain anywhere from 41 to 85 percent fat. (Remember, I suggest that your foods contain only 20 percent fat.)
Yes, it is true, if you suddenly deprive your body of all carbohydrates, you'll lose weight quickly. But you're not losing body fat. All you are losing is water weight, which is not going to stay off for very long. You can't possibly exist in such a nutritionally unbalanced and unhealthy state for the rest of your life. Sending your body into some unnatural carbohydrate-less state will leave you feeling tired and irritable and without any energy, and it can make you more prone to disease, especially if you follow these diets and start eating much more fat. This style of eating may lead to heart disease and some forms of cancer. What these books also forget to tell you is that the no-carboydrate diets might eventually lead your body into a condition called ketosis, which is a nutritional disease that can ultimately cause liver and kidney damage.
The reason we are fat is because we're eating too much fattening food! Carrots, rice, potatoes and proper amounts of pasta don't get you fat. Fast food, fried food, cake, candies and the like get you fat.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | A veggie omelette made with four to six egg whites and 1 cup of grits with dehydrated butter. |
Lunch | Meal replacement drink. |
Snack | Try the Shrimp Scampi from the Cooking Guide. |
Dinner | Grilled lean beef, mashed potatoes and a dinner salad. |
Snack | How about one of the lean burgers from the Cooking Guide? |
Here's another way for you to work tonight on getting more negative thoughts out of your brain: Whenever a negative thought hits, immediately stop and try to rephrase it as a positive thought. In regards to this program, for instance, you might feel guilty (which is a negative thought) if you happen to blow your eating program one day and devour a high-fat meal. What if instead of sighing and thinking, "Wow, I was bad," you immediately imagine yourself succeeding (which is a positive thought). You imagine yourself sitting down to eat a perfect meal. You imagine the happiness you feel eating that meal. You imagine how it's making you healthier and how it's changing your physical appearance. If you have those images in your head when you sit down at your next meal, you will eat a perfect meal.
I want you to learn to talk to yourself in a different way. It's very important that you learn to monitor the sentences you say to yourself, replacing phrases that weaken you with phrases that empower you. That means getting the words "can't" and "don't" out of your vocabulary. If you ever catch yourself saying or even thinking the words "bad" or "stupid," take a minute to change them to positive ones.
Don't say, "It's going to be difficult to cut back desserts."
Say, "This is going to be an opportunity to get lean."
Don't say, "Losing weight is a struggle."
Instead say, "Losing weight is a great journey."
Instead of telling yourself, "I was bad to have the piece of cake."
Say, "I did eat that cake, and I will be more careful at my next meal."
Instead of saying "I must deprive myself of lots of food to lose weight," rechannel those negative thoughts into a more positive and accurate attitude.
When you face a difficult situation, say to yourself, "I'll win," not "I might lose." When opportunity appears, think "I can do it," never "I can't."
In other words, let all variations of the thought "I will succeed" dominate your thinking process. When you constantly worry about getting fat (a negative thought), you are actually programming your subconscious to stay overweight because you're letting the fear of fat overwhelm you. When you stare at yourself in the mirror and say, "Gosh, it's going to take a long time to lose weight," you are already trying to rationalize failure, which means you are more likely to fail. You are more likely to succeed if your brain is being given thoughts that success is the only option.
The important thing to remember is that you can find ways to break up the negative voice inside you. You can interrupt that voice and then destroy it. No one is forcing you to listen to your negative voice. You can turn it off whenever you wish. And it is at that very moment when you really start doing your best.
As your workouts are progressing, it is probably time for some of you to start holding light dumbbells in your hands during your 60-Second Workouts. Hand weights are a great investment. If you want to economize, you can even use 1-gallon jugs of water. You'll be amazed at the results. If you have been following the workouts, your body has begun to quickly recondition itself, and if you want to improve on that level of fitness, you need to add some resistance. You are ready to move to the next step in which your muscles begin to reshape your body in a stunning, beautiful way. With less fat on your body, you'll really see more results in a hurry. But again, you don't have to do it. You'll get great results if you just stay with weightless workouts.
Even though you are now eating five times per day and you are trying to include a lean protein and starchy carb in as many of those meals as possible, there will still be times when many of you are going to find yourself wanting to nibble between meals. Some of you might be able to wait every three hours for your next meal. For others, the urge to eat will sometimes show up an hour and a half after a meal and you will decide you absolutely have to snack before the next meal.
I'm going to be honest with you. Snacking can counteract all the benefits of the program, and on occasion it can sabotage the 21-Day Slimdown. I know people who oversnack on high-fat food and then say to themselves, "Well, I've blown it now. I may as well blow the rest of the day, too." They are like dominoes - once the first bit of control goes, the rest follows, and soon the whole eating program collapses.
If done correctly, however, snacking can enhance your program. You can allow snacking to play a role in your life, but I'm warning you, you have to be very, very careful. For many of us, the kinds of snacks we turn to are the very foods that can trigger a reaction in us to splurge. You might think, "Oh, I'll have just one cookie," and then boom! You've had four or five. Or how many of you have walked through the kitchen and grabbed a handful of potato chips thinking it's perfectly okay to have just three or four chips, and then 15 minutes later you grab another handful on your next trip through the kitchen?
How many of you have eaten a spoonful of ice cream on one trip to the kitchen, then some fried tortilla chips on another, then a few allegedly low-fat cookies on another trip, and then a slice of cold pizza on another trip? You might laugh, but I know lots of people who constantly graze through their refrigerators in between meals and still believe they are following the program.
I have said many times you can do this program without having to give up your favorite foods. But right now, you need to have a big talk with yourself. If you are one who gets really hungry while doing this program, will you be able to snack successfully as long as there are plenty of salty high-fat foods or desserts in the kitchen?
I have banned peanut butter from my house. I have also done the same thing with ice cream, pies, sugary cereals and other processed foods loaded with fat calories. For me, there can be no equivocation with trigger foods. If I think a specific food has a certain temptation for me and it can affect the quality of my program, that food has to go.
You don't have to go that far, of course. You don't have to do the program as strictly as someone like me. On the other hand, try to have your kitchen stocked with low-fat snacks. I am big on eating fibrous vegetables for snacks. They fill me up without giving me any fat calories. I will down a green salad or eat a bag of sliced carrots, celery or broccoli. I'll eat an apple, which at 60 calories is just fine. (Remember my earlier warning: If you eat more than a couple of pieces of fruit, you're overloading your body with lots of simple carbohydrates, which are easy to digest and can easily be picked up by your fat cells.)
If you're going to eat between meals, having the right kind of snacks in your house becomes absolutely critical to losing weight. If you're willing to throw out all your greasy, salty snacks and your sugary desserts, then try these:
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Egg Muffin from the Cooking Guide with baked hash browns purchased from the frozen foods section of your grocery store. |
Lunch | 4 to 5 ounces of baked turkey breast, a steamed vegetable and 1 cup of bean and corn salad. |
Snack | Baked fish and, for your carb, try the Rice Salad from the Cooking Guide. |
Dinner | Try the Pasta with Ham and Peas from the Cooking Guide. |
Snack | Meal replacement drink or a low-fat frozen meal. |
Did you feel completely refreshed as you went through the day today? If so, I bet it had a lot to do with what you have been doing to your mind this week. By trying to rid yourself of negative thoughts and by going to bed thinking only positive things about yourself, you unknowingly gave your subconscious a chance to exhale. Instead of being burdened with a lot of depressing junk, your subconscious was able to luxuriate in more creative, nourishing thoughts.
The more positive thoughts you have about yourself, the more you will base your decisions upon those positive thoughts. The more you say to yourself, "I can succeed on the 21-Day Slimdown," the more you are guaranteeing success. When you say to yourself affirmations such as "I am the most important person in my life," or, "I deserve to do something good for myself," good things will happen. Without that jolt of self-esteem and without that fervent belief in your own value, you will allow yourself to stay stagnant. You will think you are too old or too out of shape or too busy or too whatever to get the body you want.
As Confucius said many years ago, "Good people strengthen themselves ceaselessly." And that's exactly what you're doing.
I cannot tell you how much I love meeting people who have finished the second week of the 21-Day Slimdown. It's not just the obvious physical progress that I've seen, but it's seeing in their eyes the realization that they are on their way to true, unqualified success. After I gave a speech one day to a group about the 21-Day Slimdown, Trish, a secretary from Dallas, approached me and said, "Larry, when I first heard about you, I didn't really trust you. I didn't think you were shooting straight with us. But I decided to go ahead and follow your program, at least for a few days."
"What happened?" I asked.
"By the second week, I felt a sense of energy I never had before. I felt really, really healthy! I was eating the right kind of foods, and I was eating a lot of them. But..."
"But what?"
"I still didn't think I was going to lose weight."
"Well, what happened then?"
Trish smiled. "Over the next three months, I lost twenty-five pounds, and I could tell it was all body fat. I've never felt so good in my life."
Over and over, I have heard these kinds of stories from men and women who thought there was no answer for them, who thought they didn't have the willpower to lose weight, who figured they'd stay heavy for the rest of their lives and who then discovered this program. In the process of transforming their bodies, they started transforming the power of their minds. Some began to think positive thoughts about themselves for the first time in years.
One of the most inspiring stories I ever heard came from a very down-on-his-luck, overweight man who lived in a boardinghouse. He wrote and told me that he had plugged in an old AM radio and listened to my call-in radio show as a form of entertainment. But over the months, as he kept listening to me say that people can change their entire lives just by changing their bodies, this man decided to change his body, too. He was close to homeless, and he had been eating mostly cheap processed and fried foods - foods high in salt and fat. But he bought a little hot plate and began buying oatmeal, rice, canned tuna, white chicken and canned vegetables. He began eating five small meals per day, the price of which he said cost him less than one meal at a fast-food outlet. He walked in a pair of old tennis shoes averaging 30 minutes five times a week. Within three months, he later told me, his energy was up, his negative attitude was gone and for the first time in a decade he decided to pursue a goal for his own life. He wrote me that he had received a full-time job, found a place of his own to live and had lost 30 pounds.
In our final week together, we will focus our energies on maintaining the 21-Day Slimdown, staying in control and developing the right kind of coping mechanisms during those periods when we backslide and relapse into our old habits. You'll be fine-tuning your skills.
And believe me, the old habits will try to return. There will be times when you'll become too emotionally stressed that you'll want to drown your feelings in food (the fattier the better). There will be other times when you are walking alone and you start smelling something wonderful coming from a bakery. Boom. You'll want to race inside and order everything you see.
You might be making peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for your kids and you find yourself making little sandwiches for yourself. You might find yourself at business dinners, thinking you must eat and drink as much as your customers to make them feel comfortable, regardless of how much it wrecks your program. At other times, you'll get so busy at work or with your family that you'll start missing your walks or your 60-Second Workouts. There will be a voice inside you trying to make you think that missing a few walks or having a few mini-peanut butter sandwiches isn't going to matter.
It's foolish to think that your healthy new habits will hold up to your old, ingrained habits if you do not stay vigilant. There will be days when you wake up without any enthusiasm, and the last thing you want to do is prepare some meals. As you start hitting your target weight, the weight won't be coming off as fast (because it won't need to), and you will no longer have the exhilarating reward as you once did about the fat dropping off your body.
Trust me, you will have lapses. You will make mistakes.
But here's the thing to remember: A successful person isn't someone who doesn't make mistakes. It's someone who knows how to deal with them when they come. That's why our work this week can be summed up in three words: maintenance, coping and control. We will work at maintaining our program, coping with mistakes and getting back in control.
You're not going to avoid thinking about your setbacks. You're going to deal with them. You're no longer going to shrug guiltily and say to yourself that you need more willpower. You're going to learn control power that will make eating right and staying fit as automatic and natural as breathing.
It's not always as exciting to maintain your weight as it is to lose it. But you've worked too hard to get to this point to have to start all over again. Let's truly make this time the last time you ever have to lose weight again.
I want us to start off this week by confronting a major enemy in our quest for leanness: the reason we overindulge ourselves with food. How many times have you eaten a huge dinner at a restaurant and then, the minute you got home, started looking for something to eat? Although your stomach was full, something else was missing. You weren't satisfied. And for some subconscious reason, you decided it was more food that would help you find that satisfaction.
Studies have found that overweight people tend to overeat in response to stress. Any negative emotion - anger, depression, loneliness, boredom or frustration - triggers a bout of overeating. Even when they are not under stress, many people with weight problems use food as a mood elevator. They get fatigued or bored, they get lonely or just mildly fidgety and they eat. Food becomes their way to get through life's ups and downs.
I'm not a psychologist, but after years of watching people struggle to get lean, I know that until you learn to separate your emotional life from your eating life, you're not going to be very successful on any weight loss program. If you turn to chocolate to deal with your feelings of anxiety, you're going to have a lot more difficulty following this program than someone who does not. If you're someone who can go blank while eating and let your feelings disappear underneath a mound of food, you're in a very precarious, high-risk position to get even fatter.
To some degree, all of us have to break the practice of using food to get emotional satisfaction. I have gone through the same struggle myself. I grew up in a family that turned to food for solace, and I know that I also have a tendency to be a compulsive overeater. One evening a few years ago, my wife shocked me when I came home and told her in a semi-arrogant tone of voice, "Honey, isn't it great that I don't take out my frustrations at the office on you or my family?"
She said, "That's right, Larry, you take out your frustrations on the refrigerator. You come home and you don't stop eating."
It took me a while, but I later realized she was right. Although I was always eating more healthful foods, I would eat anything I could get my hands on if I had a stressful day - an entire bag of air-popped popcorn followed by a bag or two of baby carrots followed by six sugar-free frozen treats all in one sitting!
I am not about to mislead you into thinking that this program is going to prevent stress and tension from entering your life. We live in the real world. As good as you might be at this program, there will be times when you'll be caught with your guard down, when stress will rear its ugly head and you'll want to eat to swallow your negative mood.
That's why you need good, solid strategies to keep your moods from determining how much you eat.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Meal replacement drink. |
Lunch | Scrambled egg whites with vegetables and a diced baked potato. |
Snack | A grilled chicken breast, rice and salad. |
Dinner | Try the Taco Salad dish from the Cooking Guide. Add a mashed potato and green beans. |
Snack | Fat-free cottage cheese on toast. |
Clearly, there are ways to deal with emotional eating without spending thousands of dollars at a psychiatrist's office. Indeed, you can work some magic in your own life simply by believing the statement "I am in control." I hate to say it, but that is about as much a magic formula as I can offer. By taking control by saying you alone and not your emotions will determine what you do, you can make your life much more special. Such control doesn't mean deprivation. It means liberation.
When I need emotional reinforcement, I make extra affirmations about myself and the benefits of this program. It keeps the negative voices from getting too loud inside me, and it keeps me focused on what I need to do. Here's a unique idea: record a series of your own affirmations and play them back to yourself during your daily walks or while you complete tasks around the house. You can be as creative as you want, talking at length about the joys of dropping a dress size.
Many of you think you have such a big sweet tooth that you will still crave sugar on this program, especially at night. How can you avoid sugar cravings? There is an easy answer: Make sure you don't miss meals, and make sure that each meal is balanced with protein and starchy carbs. When you get a sugar craving, it almost always means you are under-eating during the day, either by missing meals or having portions that are too small. If you must address the craving, look at my suggestions for fat-free or very low-calorie desserts in the Cooking Guide. These are far, far better than a sugary eating binge.
Now think about this. How many of you in the past two weeks have sat down to eat a meal straight from your daily Eating Guide and ended up eating far more than you'd intended to? You knew the exact portions that I wanted you to eat (your protein should be the size of your hand, your starchy carb should be about the size of your fist, and your fibrous vegetable should be able to fit into a small cereal bowl), but when you got through those portions, you kept eating.
Why did you do that? It's merely because you're just accustomed to overeating, which is not surprising considering you have grown up in a culture that throws food at you. We start eating and keep eating, not really giving a second thought to the fact that we are eating twice as much as we need to.
The way to start breaking the overeating habit is to follow one rule: Never let your mind wander during meals. That's what I had to learn to do, and it helped immeasurably. I had to concentrate on what I was doing and focus on eating only the food I was supposed to eat. I firmly believe that if you can just become aware of what your eating behavior is and if you can keep your mind alert so it will send out warning signals the moment you start going overboard, then you'll break your overeating habits.
But how do you do that? How do you make sure you stay focused and only eat the amount of food you're supposed to eat at that meal?
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Mix 1/2 cup of oats and one scoop of protein powder with 1 cup of yogurt. |
Lunch | Meal replacement drink. |
Snack | Eat at a Chinese restaurant. Try steamed shrimp, vegetables and rice with garlic sauce on the side. |
Dinner | A chicken breast and baked potato with a fibrous veggie. |
Snack | Try the Taco Casserole from the Cooking Guide. |
I hope before you go to bed tonight, you read these techniques again on staying focused during a meal. Perhaps right now, while you are still supercharged to do well on the program, you think you won't need them. But in the future, if you ever feel yourself slipping, these little tricks will be very important in keeping you focused and, most important, keeping you in control.
There was a report released that said aspartame, the ingredient in artificial sweeteners, could lead to brain cancer. Although the report scared everyone, it has since been thoroughly disproven as having no scientific basis. Meanwhile, there have been numerous studies conducted on aspartame, and one study in particular was conducted based on a human using 50 times more aspartame than anyone would ever consume. It was abundantly clear that aspartame was not as bad as critics suggested. If you want to avoid artificial sweeteners, that's fine with me. Be sure to use aspartame in diet sodas, puddings, desserts, coffee or tea, in moderation. However, if you feel uncomfortable using artificial sweeteners, just cut down on the sugar or honey as a sweetner, and you should be just fine.
I have had so many people tell me that they do well on the 21-Day Slimdown when they eat alone, with a friend or supportive family member. However, it's much different in social situations. At parties, they are surrounded by food, and plenty of it. They find themselves standing next to tables loaded with snacks. They sit down for a large dinner to stare at heaping plates of food. Occasionally, they find themselves at dinner parties where the host insists they eat.
What should you do? Clearly there are going to be certain times (holidays, special occasions and vacations) where it is just fine to cheat. But you don't want to feel burdened by the pressure to overeat every time you are in a social setting. You want to know for sure you can stay in control, and wouldn't it be nice at the end of an evening to not have to make excuses to yourself about why you ate that piece of cake at the dinner party?
If you're in a social situation, here are some ideas you can use to stay on your 21-Day Slimdown.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Four to six scrambled egg whites with vegetables and 1 cup of creamed rice cereal. |
Lunch | Chicken breast and rice is a simple and healthy meal. |
Snack | Try some sushi. Give yourself some variety and have three pieces of shrimp sushi, one tuna sashimi and one California roll (no avocado or mayonnaise on any of these). |
Dinner | Try one of the many pizza recipes found in the Cooking Guide. |
Snack | Meal replacement drink. |
You can't eliminate all the negative people in your life who might envy what you're doing, but the fact is that most people have great admiration for those who hold fast to this program. So tonight, congratulate yourself. Take some pride in what you're doing, and vow to yourself that, starting tomorrow, you won't feel the slightest bit of embarrassment in social situations when you tell others about what the 21-Day Slimdown is doing for you. Tell them about the way you have fit proper eating and fitness into your lifestyle. Share the stories of your own success. I think you'll be astounded at the crowd that gathers around you.
As a matter of fact, I want you to go so far as to make sure others know how important you are to yourself! I'm not telling you to be arrogant and self-absorbed, but how you act determines how others react to you. To be important to others, you must think you're important. To gain the respect of others, you must first act as if you deserve respect. It's that simple. The more respect you have for yourself, the more respect others will have for you.
My friend, the well-known Houston nutritionist Keith Klein, has invented a great phrase to describe another way to cheat. He calls it making "better bad choices." These are foods that won't get you leaner, but certainly will prevent you from getting much fatter. They are the foods you look for when you're at a sporting event, movie theatre, or some place with a very fixed menu and almost all of it is high in fat. There are going to be times when you reach certain emotional states and you will come home and see food as a comfort. You know those days. You want a big helping of good old comfort food. This is when you need to have the right kinds of Better Bad Choices in your kitchen: sugar free frozen treats instead of ice cream bars, dried fruit instead of candy, fat-free brownies instead of cookies, and baked potato chips instead of fried potato chips. If you're going to cheat on potato chips, then at least cheat on the ones with the fewest calories. If you need a big dessert, look at items such as the Key Lime Pie and the Banana Pudding in the Cooking Guide. I guarantee you will have trouble telling they are low-fat!
Today is one of the most important days of the 21-Day Slimdown because it's going to be your security blanket. We're going to talk about the moment that may come when you stop doing the program. For whatever reason, you quit following the Slimdown, and you've got to convince yourself to get started again.
"No, Larry, it will never happen to me," you might be saying. "I'm committed to the Slimdown." I know you are. But there is a chance some of you will backslide at some point in the future. That's why this day is so important, and if it comes, you'll know what to do. Your first backslide on this program is going to be one of your biggest challenges. If you handle your first slip successfully, you're much more likely to recover from future slips.
Here's how a typical backslide works. If you go through a period in your life where things are hectic, you might decide to go off the program for a day. Then you might put it off a second day, which makes it easier to put it off a third day as you say to yourself, "Well, let me get the rest of my life in order. Let me get all my projects done, and then I'll really get back on the program." What's happening is that the backslide is turning into an avalanche. Suddenly, the whole idea of getting started again seems so overwhelming that you put off the program yet another week.
Have you ever noticed that one of the toughest things to do in life is to leave your warm bed in your cold room? The longer you lie there and think about how unpleasant it will be to get up, the more difficult it becomes, but there's no way around it. You have to throw off the covers and put your feet on the floor, and once you take the first small step out of bed, you realize it was not that difficult to get out of bed.
It's the same thing with a backslide. The longer you wait, the harder it is to get started again. Don't wait even one extra minute to begin your recovery. Put aside any disappointment, frustration or anger you are feeling with yourself because that only postpones the effort you must make.
Always start back in small ways. Take small steps just as you did at the very start of the program. Don't demand perfection of yourself right after a setback. Don't set unrealistic goals for yourself to try to catch up. Far too many people set themselves up for greater failure after a relapse by imposing strict rules and guidelines that cannot be followed for life. This program is a lifelong journey, not an overnight trip. Like any road you travel, there will be bumps, red lights, yellow lights, detours and unexpected stops.
I suggest you review what you learned in the first week of this program. Go back to look at the first week of the program and set up an easy day of eating and exercising for yourself. Take a look at your Personal Mission Statement again. You also may take out a sheet of paper, mark a vertical line down the middle and in the left side of the page list all the benefits of sticking to the 21-Day Slimdown. Write down anything that comes to mind. (I've already lost 15 pounds, I have more energy, etc.) On the right side of the page, write down all the consequences you know will come if you continue to backslide. (I'll be out of shape, my belly will come back, etc.) You might also want to spread some motivation around your home. Put a note on your bathroom mirror with a sentence about achieving your dreams. Stick a note to the refrigerator door about the wonderful things that a properly balanced meal will do for your body.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Four scrambled egg whites and French toast makes for a healthy, delicious breakfast. |
Lunch | Eat out at an Italian restaurant. Try grilled chicken breast (ask that it be cooked with no oil, but be sure to have a few wedges of lemon on the side), one small side dish of pasta (keep it to a few ounces) with marinara sauce and a Caesar salad with dressing on the side. |
Snack | Have a turkey sandwich. |
Dinner | A chicken breast, potato and a fibrous veggie. |
Snack | Baked fish, saffron rice, and salad with fat-free dressing. |
Now here's the most important thing to do when you backslide. Make sure you do at least one thing before the day is over to help you get back on the program. Don't make the mistake of telling yourself at the start of the day that you're going to do something and then not keep your word. As odd as this sounds, it's very important early on in this program to establish trust with yourself. Each time you break a promise to yourself, you chip away at the supply of your own trust until you eventually are plagued by self-doubt.
Let's say you get up in the morning with the goal of doing some exercising, but as the day goes on, you say, "I'm too tired. I'll work out later." When later comes, you still don't do anything, but this time you say, "I'll do it first thing tomorrow morning." When tomorrow morning comes, you think, "I have too much to do. I'll wait until this weekend," and so on. After a few times of doing this, you'll develop such a negative mindset that you might stop believing you can accomplish whatever it is you want. Then you're in danger of letting your backslide turn into a total collapse.
When the backslide comes, make a small promise to yourself to recover for that day and then keep your promise, whether it means taking a short walk or eating one good meal. If you have to, do one 60-Second Workout tonight before you go to bed. It's a way of letting your subconscious know you're still serious about getting lean and staying lean. If you wish, zero in on one aspect of the program you really want to focus on that day, and after you have kept your promise, congratulate yourself. When getting back on the program after a backslide, it is better to make fewer commitments and keep the ones you make rather than making too many and breaking them. Let me tell you, after all the work you did last week on thinking and acting in a positive manner, you do not want get back in the position of being overcome by negative thoughts.
I don't worry all that much about salt. Why? The table salt that you add to food is not the culprit when it comes to high sodium in this country. It's the fast food, processed food and greasy food. If you eat according to the guidelines of this program, you will not be using highly salty foods. (If you are pregnant, you need to watch your salt intake, and if you have high blood pressure, you should, of course, cut back on salt.) I don't suggest you dump a lot of salt on your food, but a light sprinkle is okay. Salt is a great flavor enhancer.
If you backslide on the 21-Day Slimdown, I want you to be as understanding with yourself as you would be with a beloved child. Don't for one minute think about how bad you are if you slip off the program. The more you let that negative voice into your life, the more it will urge you into an even more destructive behavior. Listening to that voice can often make you your own worst enemy.
A weak period is exactly the time when you cannot - I repeat, cannot - allow negative thoughts about failure to enter your brain. What I want you to do is smile! That's right. This is not a program designed to demean and self-reprimand. This is a program to make you feel good about your life. Always keep your sense of humor. Make a mistake? Not to worry. You've got tomorrow to get better.
When I go through low periods and lack my usual enthusiasm, I do my best to be around very positive and supportive people. I would recommend you do the same thing. They can be the best way for you to stay centered on your goals.
Positive attitudes are contagious. When looking toward the future, negative people often see doom and gloom. Positive people are different. They don't wear rose-colored glasses, but they never lose sight or hope. Associating with positive people makes you think more positively. With them, the future always holds hope, and it's that very hope that leads to change. The more positive friendships you cultivate, the better off you'll be maintaining your own positive attitude, regardless of what happens in your life.
Remember how we talked about visualizations? Visualizations of who you want to be are perfect techniques for dealing with social pressure. During weak periods, I work harder than ever at visualizing myself at my absolute best. It is a technique used all the time by professional athletes who get into slumps. A baseball player who is in a hitting slump, for example, envisions himself taking his stance at home plate, swinging at the ball, connecting and watching it go over the fence for a home run. He visualizes this scene over and over. Researchers call this cognitive restructuring, and it really works. Golfers imagine hitting the perfect shot to help them improve their swing, and basketball players imagine making 50 free throws in a row using perfect form. You, too, can use visualizations to imagine yourself following the program perfectly. By running a kind of home movie about yourself in your brain, you will develop renewed confidence. You can visualize yourself eating a perfectly balanced meal. You can visualize yourself doing twenty 60-Second Workouts. You can visualize yourself at the perfect weight.
Don't be skeptical. Researchers know these visualizations work. They work because they motivate you to turn them into a reality. They help bring back your self-esteem. They make you realize, once again, that you can be in control. All you have to do is relax and let the positive part of your mind work for you. Your mind is much stronger than you can ever imagine.
Here's a sample visualization. Imagine looking at your body in the mirror and smiling because you are a lean, thin, vibrant person. Imagine yourself in the kind of form-fitting clothes you've always wanted to wear. Imagine yourself possessing the elegant muscle tone you've always wanted. Imagine the inside of your body operating as a beautiful clean engine and running on the purest of fuel.
Do you see? When you create such visualizations in your head, you're not just daydreaming. You're really doing something to make your dreams come true.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Cereal with skim milk sprinkled with fruit. |
Lunch | Eat out at a Mexican restaurant. Try grilled chicken fajitas (ask that they be cooked with no oil), corn tortillas (not flour), lettuce, onion, tomatoes and rice. |
Snack | Meal replacement drink. |
Dinner | Grilled chicken, potato/rice and salad with fat-free dressing. |
Snack | 1/2 cup of yogurt mixed with 1/2 cup of oats and a piece of fruit. |
Do you remember how I told you at the start of the program that this is a program about progress, not perfection? It's true. I never expect you to get through this program perfectly. If you do this program at only 50 percent, you'll still make progress.
What I care most deeply about is that you don't get discouraged. You can have some kind of backslide every single day, but as long as you're doing the program in some fashion you're doing a lot better for yourself than you were before you started this program. That's what matters to me.
So stay positive. Be proud of yourself. Smile. As time goes on, there might be more relapses, but the great news is that there will always be even more progress as long as you keep trying. That's all it takes.
Many of you are smokers, and you know that in the past when you've quit smoking, you've had a tendency to gain lots of weight. I expect some of you are wondering if you should be especially afraid of doing the 21-Day Slimdown because of all the food you are eating. The answer is absolutely not. The reason smokers gain weight is not because they have quit smoking. They gained weight because they have begun eating more of the same fatty, processed foods they've always eaten. If a smoker quits smoking and goes on this type of eating program, he or she will lose fat and increase lean muscle tissue. The simple solution to losing weight after having smoked is to follow this program - nothing more, nothing else.
Today, as we come to the close of these three weeks, I want you to look back through all the previous pages and review what you have learned. In all honesty, you have been given an amazing amount of information. I don't expect you to remember all of it, of course. As long as you remember the program's basic cornerstones, it will last you a lifetime.
That's all there is to it. That's all you need to remember. The 21-Day Slimdown is simple, reliable and effective. By regulating your meals every three hours, you are preventing your body's digestive system from being overly swamped with food, thus preventing the excess calories from flooding your fat cells. By eating lean proteins, starchy carbs and fibrous vegetables, you are feeding your body only the most healthful foods that will bypass the fat cells if taken in the proper amounts. And by cutting back on dietery fat, you are cutting back on the unhealthful foods that truly make you fat. Finally, your walking program will burn the fat in your body, and your 60-Second Workouts will build the muscle so that you can burn even more calories.
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | An Egg Muffin and 1 cup of oatmeal. |
Lunch | Eat at an Asian restaurant. Try a shrimp spring roll (not fried), grilled lemon grass chicken and rice noodles (or a similar combination). |
Snack | A chicken breast and rice. |
Dinner | Pasta with Ham and Peas from the Cooking Guide. |
Snack | Egg white omelette and 1 cup of creamed rice cereal. |
As you go to bed tonight, I want you to say three words out loud: moderation, balance and steadiness. Yeah, yeah, I know, they are very boring words for a pep talk. But as you know, they have been the keys to your success. You cannot follow an eating and fitness program for the rest of your life that forces you to act in an extreme manner. I said it at the start of the program, and I'll say it again here: Any program you can't do for the rest of your life is not worth doing for a single day. If you want to be successful, you must commit yourself to taking small steps that require moderation, balance and steadiness. It's because of these words that you will be able to transform your body, shed your old identity and step forth boldly into the future. You might not see it yet, but these small steps are growing larger and larger, and the results are becoming more tangible. Just as a downhill skier starts off slowly at the top of the hill but quickly becomes unstoppable down the slope, you too are building momentum to reach your ultimate goal of a lean, healthy body.
Many of you are getting great results on the program, but you're wondering if there is something extra you can do to get a tighter stomach. You are doing all the stomach crunches described in the Exercise Guide, but you just can't seem to get rid of the fat around your midsection. I'm sorry to tell you this, but doing sit-ups and stomach crunches or any other abdominal exercise is a pure waste of time when it comes to removing the extra fat around your middle. That doesn't mean abdominal work isn't good for you. It tightens your muscles there so you do look fitter. But the only way to lose that extra weight around your waist is through the 21-Day Slimdown Eating Guide. An increase in your cardio activity can help slightly, but the true secret is to cheat less and reduce the foods you're not supposed to eat. All in all, there is no exercise substitute for the eating program.
What can I say? Right now I'm almost speechless. You have turned little steps into great strides because of your simple but noble decision to make a better life for yourself. Opening the door and stepping out of your past required a commitment that most people don't have. You made the decision to fly adventurously into the unknown.
There is really nothing more I can tell you. It is so moving for me to see how much you have accomplished on this program. You know exactly what to do to make your body leaner and stronger. You've learned all the keys to being fit and keeping bad food out of your life without feeling the slightest bit deprived. In so many ways, you have honored yourself. As time goes on, I want you to remember that. You have worked so hard at learning to believe in yourself. With your new-found control and discipline, you are already exhibiting a kind of enthusiasm and passion that others haven't seen in you before.
I get letters from mothers, business executives, grandparents and students. All of them have stories to tell about the way the program has helped give them the strength and confidence to be able to create a better life. I remember once talking to a land surveyor named Willie. When I met him, he weighed 435 pounds. One day he blacked out at his job site, was sent to the hospital and was told by his doctor, "Willie, you can either lose weight, or you can struggle for the rest of your life." Willie heard about the 21-Day Slimdown, started following it and ended up losing 135 pounds in less than eight months. A year later, he had lost another 90 pounds.
I said, "Willie, has there been any downside to the program?"
He said, "Larry, the program has slowed down my work output."
"What do you mean?" I asked, a little baffled.
"I have trouble getting work done because so many people come up to me asking if I will tell them about this program I found to help me lose weight."
There was also Sandy Friesenhahn, a Dallas woman who had struggled with her weight for almost her entire life. She thought she had no time for herself because she was working two jobs and taking care of kids. But then her wake-up call came. She told me she had to do something to feel confident about herself. She was tired of feeling embarrassed in public about the way she looked. She didn't have time to go to a gym, she later told me, and she didn't have time to whip up perfect low-fat meals. But she took my program, learned how to get in her five daily meals simply and quickly, learned to get in her workouts, and lost so much weight and body fat that many people who saw her in a swimsuit told her she should enter a beauty pageant. Sandy did...and became a finalist for Mrs. Texas!
Let me tell you one final story about the power of this program. I will never forget how I was doing one of my live weekly radio broadcasts at a shopping mall, and a man walked up who looked vaguely familiar. I kept staring at him, and then it hit me. It was the most feared coach from my high school. When I attended high school, he truly made my life miserable. He had a crewcut, a very bulky physical presence and a fiercely intimidating manner. At the time, I was a boy who had just left New York and was completely out of place in Dallas. I wore a black T-shirt over my soft, flabby body, and I wore an earring as a fashion statement. The coach found me irritating from the moment he laid eyes on me. He instructed the high school football team that if they were seen talking to me or befriending me, they would do extra laps at practice.
Part of the joy of leaving high school, I thought, was getting away from that coach. And then after years and years, there he was standing in front of me. Although I was by then considered a national fitness expert, I reverted right back to my adolescent state.
"Oh, my God," I thought, "what is he going to do?"
The coach took the microphone that was available for the audience and asked, "Do you remember who I am?"
"Yes, sir," I said, my voice shaking.
"Well," he said, "I'm down here to tell your listeners something. I came here to say that I once made your life miserable, and I'm now here to ask your forgiveness. I was recently diagnosed with cancer, and my doctor said, "You need to follow this Larry North program because he has the right idea on getting fit and eating right." The coach paused. "And I'm here to tell your listeners this program saved my life. I have gotten healthier than I have ever been before. I have a newfound sense of energy, and I feel like I'm beating the cancer. Larry, I believe my success is because of this program."
MEAL | EATING GUIDE |
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Breakfast | Four to six scrambled egg whites and 1 cup of baked hash browns. |
Lunch | A grilled chicken sandwich. |
Snack | Grilled flounder, potatoes and a vegetable. |
Dinner | Meal replacement drink. |
Snack | To celebrate the end of the three weeks, treat yourself to a great steak dinner. Order a filet mignon, from 1 to 6 ounces, one baked potato with everything on the side, a dinner salad with fat-free dressing on the side and sliced beefsteak tomatoes. |
You'll love this. After all the work you've done this week, treat yourself to a day of rest. In fact, give yourself a reward. See today's Slimdown Tip.
Remember that bottle of champagne I told you to buy when we were just starting this program? It's time to open it. As we conclude, I want you to know, from the very bottom of my heart that I am honored to have had this opportunity to work with you.
I think one of the reasons the world is so full of frustrated people is that they know they have great potential but they have never stuck to their vision of what they could become. It is not that they don't want to change, but that they don't want to commit to change.
They look at people like you and think you must be very lucky to have found such a niche. They are probably asking themselves, "How did you get so lucky?"
Hey, as you know, luck had nothing to do with it. You simply made a decision to change, and then you stayed committed to change. It's that commitment to continue to change that makes you so special!
I know this is the end of the program, but it is really just the beginning. Have you ever heard the saying, "Today is the first day of the rest of your life"? That's exactly where you are. In so many ways, your journey is just the beginning. All you have to do is keep believing in yourself and keep believing in this program, and the journey will take you places you cannot imagine and lead you to horizons you never knew existed.
All the best,
Larry North
Because you've been pushing yourself harder this week physically than you have in a long time, it's time to treat your body with a little TLC. You can take a long, luxurious bath or pamper yourself at a hair salon, but I'd like to suggest something that makes you feel better than ever about your body. Have a professional massage therapist give you a soothing, uplifting massage.
A professional massage costs money, but it's amazing how it will connect you to your body. During a massage, the points of tension and stress in your body seemingly disappear. If you're in deep stress, it can help you relax. It also helps prevent injury by working out some of the pain in your body. It is a remarkably healthy endeavour, and you feel pampered with the soothing strokes of the massage therapist. The experience of being touched and pampered can be so nourishing. After a massage, you will really love your body and be more attuned to taking care of it.
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Results may vary. Proper nutrition and exercise will be needed to achieve overall goals and results.